Thursday, December 08, 2005

A Christmas Story

Thursday, December 8th, 2005

A Christmas Story

Micah 6:16
16 You have observed the statutes of Omri and all the practices of Ahab's house, and you have followed their traditions. Therefore I will give you over to ruin and your people to derision; you will bear the scorn of the nations."

Matthew 15:1-20
1 Then some Pharisees and teachers of the law came to Jesus from Jerusalem and asked, 2 "Why do your disciples break the tradition of the elders? They don't wash their hands before they eat!"

3 Jesus replied, "And why do you break the command of God for the sake of your tradition? 4 For God said, 'Honor your father and mother' and 'Anyone who curses his father or mother must be put to death.' 5 But you say that if a man says to his father or mother, 'Whatever help you might otherwise have received from me is a gift devoted to God,' 6 he is not to 'honor his father' with it. Thus you nullify the word of God for the sake of your tradition. 7 You hypocrites! Isaiah was right when he prophesied about you: 8 " 'These people honor me with their lips, but their hearts are far from me. 9 They worship me in vain; their teachings are but rules taught by men.'"

10 Jesus called the crowd to him and said, "Listen and understand. 11 What goes into a man's mouth does not make him 'unclean,' but what comes out of his mouth, that is what makes him 'unclean.' "

12 Then the disciples came to him and asked, "Do you know that the Pharisees were offended when they heard this?"

13 He replied, "Every plant that my heavenly Father has not planted will be pulled up by the roots. 14 Leave them; they are blind guides. If a blind man leads a blind man, both will fall into a pit."

15 Peter said, "Explain the parable to us."

16 "Are you still so dull?" Jesus asked them. 17 "Don't you see that whatever enters the mouth goes into the stomach and then out of the body? 18 But the things that come out of the mouth come from the heart, and these make a man 'unclean.' 19 For out of the heart come evil thoughts, murder, adultery, sexual immorality, theft, false testimony, slander. 20 These are what make a man 'unclean'; but eating with unwashed hands does not make him 'unclean.'"

Mark 7:1-15
1 The Pharisees and some of the teachers of the law who had come from Jerusalem gathered around Jesus and 2 saw some of his disciples eating food with hands that were "unclean," that is, unwashed. 3 (The Pharisees and all the Jews do not eat unless they give their hands a ceremonial washing, holding to the tradition of the elders. 4 When they come from the marketplace they do not eat unless they wash. And they observe many other traditions, such as the washing of cups, pitchers and kettles.)

5 So the Pharisees and teachers of the law asked Jesus, "Why don't your disciples live according to the tradition of the elders instead of eating their food with 'unclean' hands?"

6 He replied, "Isaiah was right when he prophesied about you hypocrites; as it is written: "'These people honor me with their lips, but their hearts are far from me. 7 They worship me in vain; their teachings are but rules taught by men.' 8 You have let go of the commands of God and are holding on to the traditions of men."

9 And he said to them: "You have a fine way of setting aside the commands of God in order to observe your own traditions! 10 For Moses said, 'Honor your father and your mother,' and, 'Anyone who curses his father or mother must be put to death.' 11 But you say that if a man says to his father or mother: 'Whatever help you might otherwise have received from me is Corban' (that is, a gift devoted to God), 12 then you no longer let him do anything for his father or mother. 13 Thus you nullify the word of God by your tradition that you have handed down. And you do many things like that."

14 Again Jesus called the crowd to him and said, "Listen to me, everyone, and understand this. 15 Nothing outside a man can make him 'unclean' by going into him. Rather, it is what comes out of a man that makes him 'unclean.'"

Luke 11:37-54
37 When Jesus had finished speaking, a Pharisee invited him to eat with him; so he went in and reclined at the table. 38 But the Pharisee, noticing that Jesus did not first wash before the meal, was surprised.

39 Then the Lord said to him, "Now then, you Pharisees clean the outside of the cup and dish, but inside you are full of greed and wickedness. 40 You foolish people! Did not the one who made the outside make the inside also? 41 But give what is inside the dish to the poor, and everything will be clean for you.

42 "Woe to you Pharisees, because you give God a tenth of your mint, rue and all other kinds of garden herbs, but you neglect justice and the love of God. You should have practiced the latter without leaving the former undone.

43 "Woe to you Pharisees, because you love the most important seats in the synagogues and greetings in the marketplaces.

44 "Woe to you, because you are like unmarked graves, which men walk over without knowing it."

45 One of the experts in the law answered him, "Teacher, when you say these things, you insult us also."

46 Jesus replied, "And you experts in the law, woe to you, because you load people down with burdens they can hardly carry, and you yourselves will not lift one finger to help them.

47 "Woe to you, because you build tombs for the prophets, and it was your forefathers who killed them. 48 So you testify that you approve of what your forefathers did; they killed the prophets, and you build their tombs. 49 Because of this, God in his wisdom said, 'I will send them prophets and apostles, some of whom they will kill and others they will persecute.' 50 Therefore this generation will be held responsible for the blood of all the prophets that has been shed since the beginning of the world, 51 from the blood of Abel to the blood of Zechariah, who was killed between the altar and the sanctuary. Yes, I tell you, this generation will be held responsible for it all.

52 "Woe to you experts in the law, because you have taken away the key to knowledge. You yourselves have not entered, and you have hindered those who were entering."

53 When Jesus left there, the Pharisees and the teachers of the law began to oppose him fiercely and to besiege him with questions, 54 waiting to catch him in something he might say.

Note: I bring this before myself to truly check my heart. Christmas is a tradition, a good tradition, but a tradition none-the-less. It’s about family, giving, and rejoicing with each other. But with the thought of traditions and being that Christmas is on a Sunday, a day we have held aside for the meeting of the body, I don’t know, it just seems that getting together on Sunday should be the thing to do. If Christmas is about family and getting together, isn’t the family for whoever does the will of God?

Matthew 12:46-50
46 While Jesus was still talking to the crowd, his mother and brothers stood outside, wanting to speak to him. 47 Someone told him, "Your mother and brothers are standing outside, wanting to speak to you."

48 He replied to him, "Who is my mother, and who are my brothers?" 49 Pointing to his disciples, he said, "Here are my mother and my brothers. 50 For whoever does the will of my Father in heaven is my brother and sister and mother."

I am torn because I also think of this other scripture.

1 Corinthians 9:19-23
19 Though I am free and belong to no man, I make myself a slave to everyone, to win as many as possible. 20 To the Jews I became like a Jew, to win the Jews. To those under the law I became like one under the law (though I myself am not under the law), so as to win those under the law. 21 To those not having the law I became like one not having the law (though I am not free from God's law but am under Christ's law), so as to win those not having the law. 22 To the weak I became weak, to win the weak. I have become all things to all men so that by all possible means I might save some. 23 I do all this for the sake of the gospel, that I may share in its blessings.

Would it be better for my family for me to observe Christmas on Christmas morning, as such the tradition has been? Or do I observe Christmas in the evening of the Eve and the afternoon of the day? I don’t want to put a tradition before God, but I also want to win as many as possible. What would be the better example for me to do? I have been rolling this around in my head for a number of weeks and rattle back and forth, this is better – but wait, this is better – oh wait again, this is better… WHAT IS BETTER?! I DON’T KNOW… (He’s on third and I don’t give a hoot…). If it is good and you have an idea, please let me know.
God > Me

Wednesday, December 07, 2005

Human Trafficking

Human Trafficking

Human trade, slave markets, the buying and selling of people – these are words and phrases that, to many people, echo a brutal and distant time in our past. But to the countless women, men, and children trafficked every year, these words coldly define the horror of their lives. Trafficking is a global phenomenon where victims are sexually exploited, forced into labor and subjected to abuse. Trafficking is a crime under international law that requires international cooperation to address.

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    Let it Snow, Let it Snow, Let it Snow

    Some weather coming to Dallas!

    And here is a close up of the Metroplex! My son's first Snow Storm!

    A Good Tenant - Edition #3

    Tuesday, December 6th, 2005 and Wednesday, December 7th, 2005

    A Good Tenant – Edition #3

    Marquee Marc’s Challenge:
    Here is an interesting little exercise you can do regarding this. Pretend that you are an Angel of the Lord that reports directly to Jesus regarding matters of your heart. What kind of things would you report to Jesus to write to you to encourage you and also to warn you?

    Warn:

    • Johnny tends to trust in messages without searching the scriptures.
    • Johnny can at times place more attention in worldly things and not on God.
    • Johnny doesn’t challenge non-Christians as Christ once did.
    • Johnny knows he should be having family devotionals but still does not.
    • Johnny’s attendance to church and church functions is scattered of late.
    Encourage:


    • Johnny has studied everyday in the word for more than 5 months straight now.
    • Johnny looks for ways to encourage others in ways he has never done before.
    • Johnny has had a number of temptations recently and has stayed strong in his faith.
    • Johnny is growing.
    • Johnny is praying more now than he has done before.

    Thanks Marquee Marc (I use the definition of “being an athlete of exceptional skill and popularity”), and when I think of the word athlete, I think of one who runs the race. And the word Marc is a French version of Mark which means “Warlike.” And that makes sense to me, because you are a strong warrior, a strong athlete doing what you can as you run your race.


    1. Respect: Edition #1
    2. Marvelous: Edition #2
    3. Change or Flee: Edition #3

    Matthew 21:33-46
    33 "Listen to another parable: There was a landowner who planted a vineyard. He put a wall around it, dug a winepress in it and built a watchtower. Then he rented the vineyard to some farmers and went away on a journey. 34 When the harvest time approached, he sent his servants to the tenants to collect his fruit.

    35 "The tenants seized his servants; they beat one, killed another, and stoned a third. 36 Then he sent other servants to them, more than the first time, and the tenants treated them the same way. 37 Last of all, he sent his son to them. 'They will respect my son,' he said.

    38 "But when the tenants saw the son, they said to each other, 'This is the heir. Come, let's kill him and take his inheritance.' 39 So they took him and threw him out of the vineyard and killed him.

    40 "Therefore, when the owner of the vineyard comes, what will he do to those tenants?"

    41 "He will bring those wretches to a wretched end," they replied, "and he will rent the vineyard to other tenants, who will give him his share of the crop at harvest time."

    42 Jesus said to them, "Have you never read in the Scriptures: "'The stone the builders rejected has become the capstone; the Lord has done this, and it is marvelous in our eyes'?

    43 "Therefore I tell you that the kingdom of God will be taken away from you and given to a people who will produce its fruit. 44 He who falls on this stone will be broken to pieces, but he on whom it falls will be crushed."

    45 When the chief priests and the Pharisees heard Jesus' parables, they knew he was talking about them. 46 They looked for a way to arrest him, but they were afraid of the crowd because the people held that he was a prophet.

    Mark 12:1-12
    1 He then began to speak to them in parables: "A man planted a vineyard. He put a wall around it, dug a pit for the winepress and built a watchtower. Then he rented the vineyard to some farmers and went away on a journey. 2 At harvest time he sent a servant to the tenants to collect from them some of the fruit of the vineyard. 3 But they seized him, beat him and sent him away empty-handed. 4 Then he sent another servant to them; they struck this man on the head and treated him shamefully. 5 He sent still another, and that one they killed. He sent many others; some of them they beat, others they killed.

    6 "He had one left to send, a son, whom he loved. He sent him last of all, saying, 'They will respect my son.'

    7 "But the tenants said to one another, 'This is the heir. Come, let's kill him, and the inheritance will be ours.' 8 So they took him and killed him, and threw him out of the vineyard.

    9 "What then will the owner of the vineyard do? He will come and kill those tenants and give the vineyard to others. 10 Haven't you read this scripture: "'The stone the builders rejected has become the capstone; 11 the Lord has done this, and it is marvelous in our eyes'?"

    12 Then they looked for a way to arrest him because they knew he had spoken the parable against them. But they were afraid of the crowd; so they left him and went away.

    Luke 20:9-19
    9 He went on to tell the people this parable: "A man planted a vineyard, rented it to some farmers and went away for a long time. 10 At harvest time he sent a servant to the tenants so they would give him some of the fruit of the vineyard. But the tenants beat him and sent him away empty-handed. 11 He sent another servant, but that one also they beat and treated shamefully and sent away empty-handed. 12 He sent still a third, and they wounded him and threw him out.

    13 "Then the owner of the vineyard said, 'What shall I do? I will send my son, whom I love; perhaps they will respect him.'

    14 "But when the tenants saw him, they talked the matter over. 'This is the heir,' they said. 'Let's kill him, and the inheritance will be ours.' 15 So they threw him out of the vineyard and killed him.

    "What then will the owner of the vineyard do to them? 16 He will come and kill those tenants and give the vineyard to others." When the people heard this, they said, "May this never be!"

    17 Jesus looked directly at them and asked, "Then what is the meaning of that which is written: "'The stone the builders rejected has become the capstone'? 18 Everyone who falls on that stone will be broken to pieces, but he on whom it falls will be crushed."

    19 The teachers of the law and the chief priests looked for a way to arrest him immediately, because they knew he had spoken this parable against them. But they were afraid of the people.

    I think it should be noted that Jesus never said “look you horrible sinners, you repent NOW!” He spoke of something and the people personalized it so much, their guilty heart gave them two options: 1) change or 2) get rid of the guy. And as we all know the story, they chose the latter. So for me, I come to “forks in the road” quite a bit, and it is pretty much the same way: Change Drive or Flee Parkway.

    Proverbs 28:1
    1 The wicked man flees though no one pursues, but the righteous are as bold as a lion.

    James 4:7-10
    7 Submit yourselves, then, to God. Resist the devil, and he will flee from you. 8 Come near to God and he will come near to you. Wash your hands, you sinners, and purify your hearts, you double-minded. 9 Grieve, mourn and wail. Change your laughter to mourning and your joy to gloom. 10 Humble yourselves before the Lord, and he will lift you up.

    So, going down Flee Parkway instead of Change Drive can be a bit of a pickle. No one really tells you to go down it but the heart. And really even then, it would be our sinful desires (see Romans 7). Also, it’s like when I flee, I spiritually park myself, stay in place and go nowhere whereas if I where to go down the Change Drive, I would be growing. Why is it that I sometimes flee when no one is even pursuing me? My heart was being spoken to, and I did not want to accept what was being said, much like the Pharisees knowing the parable was against them. So then the only choice when I come to the fork in the road is Change Drive.

    Matthew 18:1-9
    1 At that time the disciples came to Jesus and asked, "Who is the greatest in the kingdom of heaven?"

    2 He called a little child and had him stand among them. 3 And he said: "I tell you the truth, unless you change and become like little children, you will never enter the kingdom of heaven. 4 Therefore, whoever humbles himself like this child is the greatest in the kingdom of heaven.

    5 "And whoever welcomes a little child like this in my name welcomes me. 6 But if anyone causes one of these little ones who believe in me to sin, it would be better for him to have a large millstone hung around his neck and to be drowned in the depths of the sea.

    7 "Woe to the world because of the things that cause people to sin! Such things must come, but woe to the man through whom they come! 8 If your hand or your foot causes you to sin, cut it off and throw it away. It is better for you to enter life maimed or crippled than to have two hands or two feet and be thrown into eternal fire. 9 And if your eye causes you to sin, gouge it out and throw it away. It is better for you to enter life with one eye than to have two eyes and be thrown into the fire of hell.

    Going down Change Drive, to make a change is going to take effort. It has to be a driving force. To have the heart of pleasing God, that of a child wanting to please their parent, takes radical thought (verses 7-9). It takes the mindset of doing “whatever it takes” and any thought less than that concept may not be good enough. How far am I willing to humble myself? Do I have a driving force to change or am I fleeing to a place where I can park myself in self pity? This has been an enlightening study for me, so Johnny Out.


    God > Me

    Monday, December 05, 2005

    A Good Tenant - Edition #2

    Monday, December 5th, 2005

    A Good Tenant – Edition #2

    Before I dig back into this study of the tenants and what God expects of me, I wanted to share about my weekend and what I learned over the previous two days. Honestly, I can’t place everything within here, for I learned quite a lot. Great Sunday service and visited with a number of friends outside of my “normal circle” and throughout it all, everyday life can reveal so much about me as a person. I am now reading a new book by William Law, who wrote “A Serious Call to a Devout and Holy Life.” It is so amazing how much he describes the “Christians” of the day and what he sees is what I see among society now. Almost 300 years have passed since he wrote his book and nothing has changed on the grand scheme of things. And it really ties into the Sunday message. The purpose of a disciple is to get to heaven, and how do we fulfill that purpose? Live the life that God calls us to. Am I a devout Christian? Do I share my faith? Am I fruitful? I do share my faith, but not near as much as I used to. I feel there is more to being fruitful than baptizing someone, but as far as baptizing I have not brought anyone to Christ since I was baptized in 2001. It has been on my New Years Resolutions list for the past 3 years (I make a list of 7 things I want to accomplish each year and then check them throughout the year to see how I am doing).

    Consider Julius from Law’s book: “Julius is very fearful of missing [church]; all the parish supposes Julius to be sick if he is not at church. But if you were to ask him why he spends the rest of his time by humor or chance, why he is a companion of the silliest people in the most silly pleasures, why he is ready for every impertinent entertainment and diversion, if you were to ask him why there is no amusement too trifling to please him, why he is busy at all balls and assemblies, why he gives himself up to an idle, gossiping conversation, why he lives in foolish friendships and fondness for particular persons that neither want nor deserve any particular kindness, why he allows himself in foolish hatreds and resentments against particular persons without considering that he is to love everybody as himself; if you ask him why he puts his conversation, his time, and fortune, under the rules of religion – Julius has no more to say for himself that the most disorderly person. For the whole tenor of Scripture lies as directly against such a life, as against debauchery and intemperance: he that lives such a course of idleness and folly, lives no more according to the religion of Jesus Christ than he that lives in gluttony and intemperance.”

    So in other words, do I carry my cross on when the churches meet and then put it in the closet when I get home, only to pick it up when I know I am going to be seen either by other Christians that I know or church again, or do I carry my cross daily. Am I a “24/7 Christian” or just a “Sunday Warrior”? If I am a Sunday Warrior, then my life would show that I have no regard for the bible in my every day life. If I am a 24/7 Christian, my life would show by the decisions I make. Do I speed, do I pray with others, do I share my faith, do I tolerate sin in my and others lives? How do I spend the 24 hours a day that God has given me? Serious questions to ask myself. Am I like Julius or Jesus? WWJD: what would Julius do or what would Jesus do? It really boils down to “what would I do”? Again, a great weekend and a great reflection.

    1. Respect: Edition #1
    2. Marvelous: Edition #2
    3. Change or Flee: Edition #3

    Matthew 21:33-46
    33 "Listen to another parable: There was a landowner who planted a vineyard. He put a wall around it, dug a winepress in it and built a watchtower. Then he rented the vineyard to some farmers and went away on a journey. 34 When the harvest time approached, he sent his servants to the tenants to collect his fruit.

    35 "The tenants seized his servants; they beat one, killed another, and stoned a third. 36 Then he sent other servants to them, more than the first time, and the tenants treated them the same way. 37 Last of all, he sent his son to them. 'They will respect my son,' he said.

    38 "But when the tenants saw the son, they said to each other, 'This is the heir. Come, let's kill him and take his inheritance.' 39 So they took him and threw him out of the vineyard and killed him.

    40 "Therefore, when the owner of the vineyard comes, what will he do to those tenants?"

    41 "He will bring those wretches to a wretched end," they replied, "and he will rent the vineyard to other tenants, who will give him his share of the crop at harvest time."

    42 Jesus said to them, "Have you never read in the Scriptures: "'The stone the builders rejected has become the capstone; the Lord has done this, and it is marvelous in our eyes'?

    43 "Therefore I tell you that the kingdom of God will be taken away from you and given to a people who will produce its fruit. 44 He who falls on this stone will be broken to pieces, but he on whom it falls will be crushed."

    45 When the chief priests and the Pharisees heard Jesus' parables, they knew he was talking about them. 46 They looked for a way to arrest him, but they were afraid of the crowd because the people held that he was a prophet.

    Mark 12:1-12
    1 He then began to speak to them in parables: "A man planted a vineyard. He put a wall around it, dug a pit for the winepress and built a watchtower. Then he rented the vineyard to some farmers and went away on a journey. 2 At harvest time he sent a servant to the tenants to collect from them some of the fruit of the vineyard. 3 But they seized him, beat him and sent him away empty-handed. 4 Then he sent another servant to them; they struck this man on the head and treated him shamefully. 5 He sent still another, and that one they killed. He sent many others; some of them they beat, others they killed.

    6 "He had one left to send, a son, whom he loved. He sent him last of all, saying, 'They will respect my son.'

    7 "But the tenants said to one another, 'This is the heir. Come, let's kill him, and the inheritance will be ours.' 8 So they took him and killed him, and threw him out of the vineyard.

    9 "What then will the owner of the vineyard do? He will come and kill those tenants and give the vineyard to others. 10 Haven't you read this scripture: "'The stone the builders rejected has become the capstone; 11 the Lord has done this, and it is marvelous in our eyes'?"

    12 Then they looked for a way to arrest him because they knew he had spoken the parable against them. But they were afraid of the crowd; so they left him and went away.

    Luke 20:9-19
    9 He went on to tell the people this parable: "A man planted a vineyard, rented it to some farmers and went away for a long time. 10 At harvest time he sent a servant to the tenants so they would give him some of the fruit of the vineyard. But the tenants beat him and sent him away empty-handed. 11 He sent another servant, but that one also they beat and treated shamefully and sent away empty-handed. 12 He sent still a third, and they wounded him and threw him out.

    13 "Then the owner of the vineyard said, 'What shall I do? I will send my son, whom I love; perhaps they will respect him.'

    14 "But when the tenants saw him, they talked the matter over. 'This is the heir,' they said. 'Let's kill him, and the inheritance will be ours.' 15 So they threw him out of the vineyard and killed him.

    "What then will the owner of the vineyard do to them? 16 He will come and kill those tenants and give the vineyard to others." When the people heard this, they said, "May this never be!"

    17 Jesus looked directly at them and asked, "Then what is the meaning of that which is written: "'The stone the builders rejected has become the capstone'? 18 Everyone who falls on that stone will be broken to pieces, but he on whom it falls will be crushed."

    19 The teachers of the law and the chief priests looked for a way to arrest him immediately, because they knew he had spoken this parable against them. But they were afraid of the people.

    Marvelous (adj.):
    1. Causing wonder or astonishment.
    2. Miraculous; supernatural.
    3. Of the highest or best kind or quality; first-rate.

    Is Christ marvelous in my eyes? Does he cause astonishment within me? Do I see him as first-rate? Every time the word “marvelous” is used in the NIV, it is in reference to God. Only used a mere 14 times, every time it is used it is in admiration of God. David uses it in Psalms and Job uses it as well. Would this be a word I would use to describe my God? Do I marvel at my God or do I take him for granted? I think as time goes on, it is common for people, myself included, to minimize my Lord. When first baptized, we are king of the world in our faith, but as pain moves in, disappointment sets in, things don’t go the way we want, and soon God lowers in status. In comparison to other things, the love of my God to others doesn’t look like hatred to others. I love my family X% and God Y%, but the X is rising and the Y is falling (sorry for the math reference, but that is the only way I can explain it to myself). I had thought that this would be the opposite when I was first baptized, but that wasn’t the case. Really, the formula should be more like this: as X increases, Y increases two fold, because without Y, X cannot increase. It makes sense to me and if I need to explain further, let me know.

    1 John 4:7-21
    7 Dear friends, let us love one another, for love comes from God. Everyone who loves has been born of God and knows God. 8 Whoever does not love does not know God, because God is love. 9 This is how God showed his love among us: He sent his one and only Son into the world that we might live through him. 10 This is love: not that we loved God, but that he loved us and sent his Son as an atoning sacrifice for our sins. 11 Dear friends, since God so loved us, we also ought to love one another. 12 No one has ever seen God; but if we love one another, God lives in us and his love is made complete in us.

    13 We know that we live in him and he in us, because he has given us of his Spirit. 14 And we have seen and testify that the Father has sent his Son to be the Savior of the world. 15 If anyone acknowledges that Jesus is the Son of God, God lives in him and he in God. 16And so we know and rely on the love God has for us. God is love. Whoever lives in love lives in God, and God in him. 17 In this way, love is made complete among us so that we will have confidence on the day of judgment, because in this world we are like him. 18 There is no fear in love. But perfect love drives out fear, because fear has to do with punishment. The one who fears is not made perfect in love.

    19 We love because he first loved us. 20 If anyone says, "I love God," yet hates his brother, he is a liar. For anyone who does not love his brother, whom he has seen, cannot love God, whom he has not seen. 21 And he has given us this command: Whoever loves God must also love his brother.

    I love because God has given me the ability to. I cannot love if I have nothing to give. Can you pay for a candy bar if you have no money? But if someone gives you a couple of dollars, you can then pay for the snack. In the same way, you cannot love someone if you have never known love. It has to be given to you first before you can give it. It is like re-gifting; you get a gift and then give a gift. I have this friend whom I have known for a long, long time, and each year he blows me out of the water. His heart is amazing and he gives unselfishly. When I think of him, I think of this scripture:

    Luke 7:41-47
    41 "Two men owed money to a certain moneylender. One owed him five hundred denarii, and the other fifty. 42 Neither of them had the money to pay him back, so he canceled the debts of both. Now which of them will love him more?"

    43 Simon replied, "I suppose the one who had the bigger debt canceled."

    "You have judged correctly," Jesus said.

    44 Then he turned toward the woman and said to Simon, "Do you see this woman? I came into your house. You did not give me any water for my feet, but she wet my feet with her tears and wiped them with her hair. 45 You did not give me a kiss, but this woman, from the time I entered, has not stopped kissing my feet. 46 You did not put oil on my head, but she has poured perfume on my feet. 47 Therefore, I tell you, her many sins have been forgiven - for she loved much. But he who has been forgiven little loves little."

    So he who has been forgiven much, loves much, and he who has been forgiven little, loves little. I think that if I feel I have been forgiven much, I would tend to view God as marvelous. I would be out of myself and look for ways to “wow” people, as my friend has done to me. And wowing can occur in many different forms. A phone call, a visit, a gift, a helping hand, so many ways I can “wow” others. Do I have a life that “wows” others? Do I have the faith to amaze God? Does my life show I have been forgiven much or does it reflect a forgiven little mindset? How big do I see that debt that God canceled? Things I have to think about as my day goes on…

    GOD > ME