Showing posts with label Porneia. Show all posts
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Tuesday, April 15, 2008

The Purity Ministry

In early 2000, The National Coalition for the Protection of Children and Families surveyed students at 5 Christian colleges regarding pornography: 48% of the males admitted to current porn use. At a Christian men’s retreat in Idaho the men who were struggling with pornography were asked to stand up – and half of the men in the room came to their feet.

In March of 2002, Rick Warren’s Pastors.com website conducted a survey on porn use of 1,351 pastors. 54% had viewed Internet pornography within the last year, with 30% admitting they visited a porn site within the last 30 days. In a poll Focus on the Family took October of 2003, 47% of families said pornography is a problem in their home.

Most men who struggle with pornography or various types of sex addiction (promiscuity, adultery, adult clubs, chat rooms, etc.) suffer silently while it destroys their life. They think that “there’s no way I can tell anyone about this – especially in the church” and so they sit in church week after week withering in secret shame. Porn use is addictive and progressive, and it destroys men and their families.

The sad part is that most wait until they get caught and the consequences catch up to them (a marriage is destroyed, they are arrested, lose their job, or get an STD) before reaching out for help. In the battle against lust, isolation is death. Keeping the problem inside only keeps the man trapped in bondage. The only way to move toward freedom is to “confess our sins to one another so that we may be healed.” (James 5:16).

We need others to help us in the battle. If you are struggling with this problem, we have a safe place for you to meet with other men who struggle with the same issues. The Purity Ministry is a group for men who struggle with porn and/or sex addiction. Email at jonathonray201@hotmail.com for more information.

This is currently the book being read right now in the group. If you are interested in joining the group, feel free to contact me and I will get the process started. Johnny Out.

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Saturday, April 05, 2008

The Will of God: Part III

The Will of God: Part III

Wow, another day, another QT. I have had some strange dreams the last couple of days. Rather entertaining, actually. Giant Three Stooges and Spiderman... and a large bald man. You can't forget the bald man. That's all I'm going to say about that, though... I'll just let that role around in your head... So, on the the Quiet Time.

The scripture of the day:

Honor God with everything you own; give him the first and the best. Your barns will burst, your wine vats will brim over. Proverbs 3:9-10 (The Message)

Romans 8:22-30
We know that the whole creation has been groaning as in the pains of childbirth right up to the present time. Not only so, but we ourselves, who have the firstfruits of the Spirit, groan inwardly as we wait eagerly for our adoption as sons, the redemption of our bodies. For in this hope we were saved. But hope that is seen is no hope at all. Who hopes for what he already has? But if we hope for what we do not yet have, we wait for it patiently.

In the same way, the Spirit helps us in our weakness. We do not know what we ought to pray for, but the Spirit himself intercedes for us with groans that words cannot express. And he who searches our hearts knows the mind of the Spirit, because the Spirit intercedes for the saints in accordance with God's will.

And we know that in all things God works for the good of those who love him, who have been called according to his purpose. For those God foreknew he also predestined to be conformed to the likeness of his Son, that he might be the firstborn among many brothers. And those he predestined, he also called; those he called, he also justified; those he justified, he also glorified.

The Spirit intercedes for those who are saved and love God.

Romans 12:1-8
Therefore, I urge you, brothers, in view of God's mercy, to offer your bodies as living sacrifices, holy and pleasing to God—this is your spiritual act of worship. Do not conform any longer to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind. Then you will be able to test and approve what God's will is—his good, pleasing and perfect will.

For by the grace given me I say to every one of you: Do not think of yourself more highly than you ought, but rather think of yourself with sober judgment, in accordance with the measure of faith God has given you. Just as each of us has one body with many members, and these members do not all have the same function, so in Christ we who are many form one body, and each member belongs to all the others. We have different gifts, according to the grace given us. If a man's gift is prophesying, let him use it in proportion to his faith. If it is serving, let him serve; if it is teaching, let him teach; if it is encouraging, let him encourage; if it is contributing to the needs of others, let him give generously; if it is leadership, let him govern diligently; if it is showing mercy, let him do it cheerfully.

Prophesying: prophēteia (pronounced: prof-ay-ti'-ah):

  • Prediction (scriptural or other): - prophecy, prophesying.
  • A discourse emanating from divine inspiration and declaring the purposes of God, whether by reproving and admonishing the wicked, or comforting the afflicted, or revealing things hidden; especially by foretelling future events.
  • Used in the NT of the utterance of OT prophets - of the prediction of events relating to Christ’s kingdom and its speedy triumph, together with the consolations and admonitions pertaining to it, the spirit of prophecy, the divine mind, to which the prophetic faculty is due; of the endowment and speech of the Christian teachers called prophets; the gifts and utterances of these prophets, especially of the predictions of the works of which, set apart to teach the gospel, will accomplish for the kingdom of Christ.

Will: thelēma (pronounced: thel'-ay-mah)

  • A determination (properly the thing), that is, (actively) choice (specifically purpose, decree; abstractly volition) or (passively) inclination: - desire, pleasure, will.
  • What one wishes or has determined shall be done; of the purpose of God to bless mankind through Christ; of what God wishes to be done by us - commands, precepts.
  • Will, choice, inclination, desire, pleasure.

So it is the will of God that we have gifts and we use them. We could be prophets, which are people who declare things that relate to God's kingdom and purpose. We could serve. We could teach or encourage. We could give $$ to help the needs of others. We could be leaders and we could be merciful. My personal opinion is this: we should do all of these things, and maybe more. But our strong suit, well we should be excelling in that particular area over the others.

2nd Corinthians 8:1-7
And now, brothers, we want you to know about the grace that God has given the Macedonian churches. Out of the most severe trial, their overflowing joy and their extreme poverty welled up in rich generosity. For I testify that they gave as much as they were able, and even beyond their ability. Entirely on their own, they urgently pleaded with us for the privilege of sharing in this service to the saints. And they did not do as we expected, but they gave themselves first to the Lord and then to us in keeping with God's will. So we urged Titus, since he had earlier made a beginning, to bring also to completion this act of grace on your part. But just as you excel in everything—in faith, in speech, in knowledge, in complete earnestness and in your love for us—see that you also excel in this grace of giving.

It is God's will that we exceed expectations. It is God's will that we exceed in giving, faith, speech, knowledge, earnestness, and in love for others.

1st Thessalonians 4:1-8
Finally, brothers, we instructed you how to live in order to please God, as in fact you are living. Now we ask you and urge you in the Lord Jesus to do this more and more. For you know what instructions we gave you by the authority of the Lord Jesus.

It is God's will that you should be sanctified: that you should avoid sexual immorality; that each of you should learn to control his own body in a way that is holy and honorable, not in passionate lust like the heathen, who do not know God; and that in this matter no one should wrong his brother or take advantage of him. The Lord will punish men for all such sins, as we have already told you and warned you. For God did not call us to be impure, but to live a holy life. Therefore, he who rejects this instruction does not reject man but God, who gives you his Holy Spirit.

It is the will of God that we should be sanctified and to avoid sexual immorality and that there should be a controlling of one's own body that would glorify God in a holy and honorable way. If I were to live a life of impurity, then I would not be rejecting a person, but rejecting God instead.

Sexual Immorality: porneia (pronounced: por-ni'-ah):

  • Harlotry (including adultery and incest); figuratively idolatry: - fornication.
  • Illicit sexual intercourse; adultery, fornication, homosexuality, lesbianism, intercourse with animals etc.; sexual intercourse with close relatives; sexual intercourse with a divorced man or woman.
  • Metaphorically the worship of idols; of the defilement of idolatry, as incurred by eating the sacrifices offered to idols.

This study is awesome. I like keeping it to just four scriptures, because that way I do not feel overwhelmed in a whole bunch of passages... I can focus more and get more out of it. Anyway, Johnny Out.

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Wednesday, October 03, 2007

Porneia (por-ni'-ah)

October 3rd, 2007

What is Porneia?

Mark 7:20-23

He went on: "What comes out of a man is what makes him 'unclean.' For from within, out of men's hearts, come evil thoughts, sexual immorality, theft, murder, adultery, greed, malice, deceit, lewdness, envy, slander, arrogance and folly. All these evils come from inside and make a man 'unclean.' "

Sexual Immorality - porneia (Pronounced: por-ni'-ah)
  • Harlotry (including adultery and incest); figuratively idolatry: - fornication
This is going be an in your face QT that talks about a lot of sexual sin. Just an FYI.

Harlotry is just another way of saying prostitution, or getting money for sex. Prostitution is also devoting one's talent to an unworthy use or cause, which is something I probably knew, but wasn't necessarily aware of... Fornication is sexual intercourse between partners who are not married to each other. That's premarital sex or adultery. Adultery is voluntary sexual intercourse between a married person and a partner other than the lawful spouse. Idolatry is the worship of idols and the worship of images that are not God. Incest is sexual relations between relatives who are forbidden by law to marry, such as, between father and daughter or mother and son.

Porneia is also:
  • Illicit sexual intercourse, such as: adultery, fornication, homosexuality, lesbianism, intercourse with animals etc.
  • Sexual intercourse with close relatives.
  • Sexual intercourse with a divorced man or woman.
  • Metaphorically the worship of idols, such as the defilement of idolatry, as incurred by eating the sacrifices offered to idols.
Homosexuality is sex between the same gender, a man having sex with another man, or a woman having sex with another woman. Lesbianism is a woman having sex with another woman. Even having sex with someone who is divorced is porneia, or sexual idolatry. This is my time today. Johnny Out.

Tuesday, July 12, 2005

Helpful Links

I thought I would include a list of websites that have an abundance of information, whether about addiction or just for fun sort of stuff. After the link, I will provide some information as to what the website deals with.

Addiction Journal

A scientific journal about addiction. Covers all the bases. Really good if you want to do extensive research. Has links to other sites, as well, if you are interested in researching something else. Really useful site.

The Sex Addict

This should be straight forward based on the name. This site is good for those wanting to do more on recovery. This would not be for those who want to have the addiction, as I have heard people in the world joke about.

Chemical Recovery

Great for those who are looking for a recovery group. Has links to churchs all over the world, so if you go on vacation, you should be able to find a church close by. Also has tips and helpful things for the recovering addict.

The 3X Church

A really great site. Has accountability software that is free for those who struggle with the internet pornography.

Recovery Man

Good site. Geared for the sex addict to get pointers on recovery.

Recovery Website

Good site. Geared for the one helping a sex addict to get pointers on recovery.

Books on Sexual Addiction

Yet another good site. This one has books for the recovering sex addict.

Sharon O'Hara

Just a website on sexual addiction. A good article and gives some pointers for recovery.

The Anti-Drug

Tips and tools for the parents to help keep their kids from drugs. Good education website.

NIV Bible

The Bible's website. The best concordinance.

Atom Films

A link to the Star Wars fan films. Entertaining website.

The Force is with You

Another website for fan films for Star Wars. What you can't find on the first link, then use this one.

Power to Choose

A link to the cheapest power bill in the state of Texas.

Texas Tomorrow Funds

A link to the options for school for your little one. Lock in low rates.

Beat The Streak

A website to MLB. Get in on the "Beat the Streak" contest, which is FREE! I wouldn't do it otherwise.

Wednesday, May 18, 2005

Johnnys Testimony

Johnny’s Testimony

Before I became a Christian:

What was my life like before I made Jesus Lord?

  • I did drugs.
  • I was heavily into pornography.
  • I lied to cover up my drug and pornography use.
  • I stole from my parents.
  • I felt I had blown it with God.
  • I felt I knew better, but chose not to do the right things.

What did my life revolve around? What did I get my security or happiness from?

  • I got my happiness from sports and dating, mainly. I would enjoy hanging out with friends, and using drugs with my friends.
  • I would have enjoyment from viewing pornography.

How did those areas begin to let me down?

  • My relationships with women would be based on how smart they were, how attractive they were, and how comfortable I felt around them.
  • The drugs I used provided little enjoyment, but I would use anyway. I would feel stressed when I used, because I knew it was wrong.
  • Pornography provided temporary enjoyment, but after I used, I felt dirty. I would use pornography for enjoyment on a constant basis, trying to get the satisfaction that I had once gotten from it, but to no avail.

How I became a Christian:

When was the first time I heard the gospel?

  • I grew up in the mainline Church of Christ, but the sermons never really went to my heart. I was there just to punch my card that I went to service that week, and as soon as the school bell rang, my family was out the door. No fellowship at all. I met Jenny, and we started dating, we got engaged, and started looking for a church to marry us. We came to a service, she hated it, but I liked it. So we came back, based on my decision. That was in 1998.

What were my initial reactions?

  • My initial reactions were that these people were weird, but friendly. This guy set next to us on the back row, and even though he was old enough to be my dad, he wanted to hang out with us. I thought that was cool, so I gave him my phone number. My thought was that we get married in this church, and I will eventually convince Jenny to go to my church later.

When did my attitude about Christ and/or the gospel begin to change? Why?

  • We decided to get premarital counseling, and met up with Damen and Terrin Pabst. They said that we should get our relationship with God on right first before we work on our relationship together. However, with that said, when it came to opening up, I didn’t want to open up about everything. I knew I had to confess my sexual sins then, but just couldn’t do it. My heart was too hard. It would be years before that would take place. It started with my wife finding out that I had purchased pornography at a video store. Even then, I wouldn’t be open about everything. How good a time to open up was that? Still, it would be a few more months, and then I sat down with a brother, we talked for most of the night, and then a few months later, I was baptized.

Who were the people that God used in my life and how did they impact me to make Jesus Lord?

  • The first person, in a long string, was Damen Pabst. He got the eventual ball rolling. I studied with him, Todd Asaad, Ben Doke, Hayward Johnson, and Steve Ozanne. All of these guys played an important roll. Damen introduced me to the bible, Ben and Todd had more faith in me than what I had in myself. Hayward and Steve were just awesome. When I studied that bible with them, they had me do deep research on the sexual sin in the bible, which I really needed. And it didn’t hurt that I was completely open this time. Everyone who studied with me over that time was completely open about their lives, and for so long I had wanted to do that, but my pride had kept me from it.

What were the final struggles that went through my mind just before I became a Christian?

  • Would I ever be able to stay open and go after a life of leaving my sin behind me?

What scripture helped me to make the decision to go ahead and make Jesus Lord of my life?

  • James 5:16
  • 1 Corinthians 10:13

After I became a Christian:

Specific changes I have seen in my life since becoming a Christian.

  • I am open, not only with my sin, but with my temptations, as well.
  • I pray a lot.
  • I have consistent quite times, now, and feel more in tune with my relationship with God.
  • I call brothers on a regular basis.

Why am I motivated differently? How does my relationship with Christ affect my decisions regarding activities, relationships, my future, etc.?

  • I am motivated more to have people in my life. When I do things, I think how it would affect this person or that person, and how that decision on whole is good or bad. I used to be very spontaneous, but now I try to think out my decisions, and reactions to things. I am not quick to give out advice anymore, or spout off my thoughts.
  • When I go out to do something, and it is appropriate to have someone else come along, say like a Ranger game, I try to see if anyone is interested to go as well. But on special occasions, I try to keep those between me and my wife (good for the marriage like that).
  • As far as future, I used to be driven by greed. Highest bidder only, regardless of the job. I would be miserable at the job, but happy with the pay. Now, I get advice and input from my wife, and I am going after a career in which I would be happy in doing, but the pay isn’t going to all that great. I believe that since I enjoy teaching and helping kids, that payoff is going to be so much more from the kids, that a check of any amount will be satisfactory.

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Monday, May 02, 2005

Olive W. Garvey Fellowship, 5/1/05

The Addiction to Sin Regarding Old and New Testament Laws

“The great aim of the struggle for liberty has been equality before the law.”—F.A. Hayek, Nobel Laureate in Economics

The struggle for liberty in regards to the equality before the law can be a bit confusing when you think of the spiritual laws of the Old and New Testaments in the Bible. If there is sin in your life, are you a slave to it? How do you gain liberty from it? How does that apply to the Bible? How should you react? Where should you turn to in your time of need? This paper is a journey through scriptures that describe sin and grace, as well as go through the process of repentance pertaining to the Old and New Testament Laws, which will lead to equality with Christ.

This subject pertains to everyone as it says in Romans 3:23, “for all have sinned and fall short of the glory of God.” We all fall short. The only thing that matters is how we respond to the realization that we have sinned and fall short. The scripture in Galatians 5:19-21 lists the various sins we can commit: The acts of the sinful nature are obvious: sexual immorality, impurity and debauchery; idolatry and witchcraft; hatred, discord, jealousy, fits of rage, selfish ambition, dissensions, factions and envy; drunkenness, orgies, and the like. I warn you, as I did before, that those who live like this will not inherit the kingdom of God. For many people sin has become habitual, whether it is with pornography, alcohol, over-eating, chemical drugs, and the list goes on. When sin becomes a habit, or an addiction, you are utterly powerless to it. It is crucial that an addiction to sin be recognized for what it is. Overcoming that sin is a lifelong battle.

It is clear that some sin hurts yourself or others, but the full impact of sin of any may not be obvious. Isaiah 59:2 says that “your iniquities have separated you from your God; your sins have hidden his face from you, so that he will not hear.” When we sin, we need to see it for what it is, and that is separation from God. Unlike human law that ascribes more severe of punishments to crimes considered more heinous, the spiritual law sees all sin as equal and, therefore, gives one sentence to any and all sin. As stated in Romans 6:23, “the wages of sin is death.”

When sin did enter our life, according to the Old Testament, sacrifices would have to take place, along with other very specific, detailed rituals that would have to be performed. This could be very difficult for the poor, who may not be able to afford the necessary sacrificial animal. Salvation under the old law was very hard to come by, and if you were addicted to the sin, there was no real chance for salvation. In The Guilty Soul’s Guide to Grace, it says, Go to the law to see the righteousness of God. Go to the law to see how far short you fall. Go to the law to be humbled before God. Let the law show you your weaknesses and your needs. Go there, but don’t stay there. The law is a guide to see the righteousness of God, but grace is the means of receiving righteousness from God. Let the law lead you to the One who followed it perfectly and met its requirements on your behalf. (Laing, 2005) God saw the problem that people are not able to maintain salvation through the Old Testament law. If we are to be free from sin and be united with God, another method would have to be created.

In the New Testament, Jesus fulfills the requirements of the Old Testament law for us. This is stated in Galatians 3:13: “Christ redeemed us from the curse of the law by becoming a curse for us, for it is written: ‘Cursed is everyone who is hung on a tree.’” Under the New Testament law, grace is provided through Jesus. Each person is given an equal chance at salvation, no matter your income or situation. Simply stated in 1 John 2:1-6, it says: My dear children, I write this to you so that you will not sin. But if anybody does sin, we have one who speaks to the Father in our defense—Jesus Christ, the Righteous One. He is the atoning sacrifice for our sins, and not only for ours but also for the sins of the whole world. We know that we have come to know him if we obey his commands. The man who says, "I know him," but does not do what he commands is a liar, and the truth is not in him. But if anyone obeys his word, God's love is truly made complete in him. This is how we know we are in him: Whoever claims to live in him must walk as Jesus did. There is one who speaks in our defense. The real challenge is how we need to walk as Jesus did. That can be a bit overwhelming seeing as he was perfect, but it would have to be more about effort and wanting to do the right thing, than going along with life in a lackadaisical attitude. It is put so well in the book Mind Change: the Overcomer’s Handbook, which states, My message here is simple: If we are to be long-term overcomers, we must face and deal with our sin in a godly way. Neither worldly sorrow nor a self-righteous defense fits that bill. What is needed is a wholehearted acceptance of our responsibility for sin and an equally wholehearted acceptance of God’s grace and forgiveness.” (Jones, 1997) Our reaction to our sin should be to change AND an acceptance of God’s grace and forgiveness.

These sins listed in Galatians 5 are rampant throughout the world, and when we live like this, we have no chance equality with one another in Christ; we have no chance for redemption. The only window we have is to repent and regain equality with one another in Christ. We also need to be willing to take radical steps. Matthew 18:7-9 gives us an example of just how radical our minds should be in regards to this: Woe to the world because of the things that cause people to sin! Such things must come, but woe to the man through whom they come! If your hand or your foot causes you to sin, cut it off and throw it away. It is better for you to enter life maimed or crippled than to have two hands or two feet and be thrown into eternal fire. And if your eye causes you to sin, gouge it out and throw it away. It is better for you to enter life with one eye than to have two eyes and be thrown into the fire of hell. Obviously, we shouldn’t go chopping off limbs and other body parts, but we do need to think of all the possible steps to avoid sin. If your habitual sin is alcohol or drug abuse, then recovery groups like Alcoholics Anonymous, therapists, and Chemical Recovery groups should be something to consider. If your habitual sin is pornography, then there are groups for addicts of that nature as well. The main goal is to stop the addiction to the sin, and gain equality in Christ. God wants to see the effort of stopping the sin. God wants repentance.

Many people tend to have a flawed concept of repentance. Repentance simply means to change. We are commanded in Acts 2 to “repent and be baptized.” Because humans are fallible, that is the first of many times we would need to repent. Every time we fall short and sin, we need to repent. The first step of repentance is confession. James 5:16 gives us direction in saying, “therefore confess your sins to each other and pray for each other so that you may be healed.”

The next step is having Godly sorrow and not worldly sorrow. Worldly sorrow is being sorry you were caught in your sin. Worldly sorrow is having an indignation about your sin, upset that you hurt God and others. In 2 Corinthians 7:10-11 describes in detail how this concept works: Godly sorrow brings repentance that leads to salvation and leaves no regret, but worldly sorrow brings death. See what this godly sorrow has produced in you: what earnestness, what eagerness to clear yourselves, what indignation, what alarm, what longing, what concern, what readiness to see justice done. At every point you have proved yourselves to be innocent in this matter. If we truly repent, then our actions would show it. People would be able to look at our actions and be able to say that we have changed and are trying to live a more Godly life. We are not saved by works, but works are still important. This is explained in James 2:14-18, What good is it, my brothers, if a man claims to have faith but has no deeds? Can such faith save him? Suppose a brother or sister is without clothes and daily food. If one of you says to him, "Go, I wish you well; keep warm and well fed," but does nothing about his physical needs, what good is it? In the same way, faith by itself, if it is not accompanied by action, is dead. But someone will say, "You have faith; I have deeds." Show me your faith without deeds, and I will show you my faith by what I do. Deeds in regards to faith, is living out our faith. It is also living out our repentance.

If we keep on sinning, we have to look at the scripture in Hebrews 10:26-29, and really think about how that affects our salvation, If we deliberately keep on sinning after we have received the knowledge of the truth, no sacrifice for sins is left, but only a fearful expectation of judgment and of raging fire that will consume the enemies of God. Anyone who rejected the Law of Moses died without mercy on the testimony of two or three witnesses. How much more severely do you think a man deserves to be punished who has trampled the Son of God under foot, who has treated as an unholy thing the blood of the covenant that sanctified him, and who has insulted the Spirit of grace? This, of course, hinges on the fact that we know the truth. If we do not know the truth, then we can not be under judgment of the law, and in essence, are not saved by grace.

Our struggle for freedom from sin can be a lifelong battle or we can accept the victory already available through Christ. The Old Testament law offers no relief, no compassion, and no encouragement. However, the New Testament reveals grace and mercy in Jesus’ sacrifice. Through this we gain equality with each other and Christ in our salvation and inheritance of the kingdom of heaven.

References:
  • The Holy Bible - New International Version (1990). Indiana: B. B. Kirkbride Bible Co., Inc.
    Laing, Sam (2005). The Guilty Soul’s Guide to Grace. Massachusetts: Discipleship Publications International.
  • Jones, Thomas A. (1997). Mind Change: the Overcomer’s Handbook (Second Edition). Massachusetts: Discipleship Publications International.

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Saturday, April 23, 2005

Textbook X Scholarship Essay 4/22/05

Sexual Addiction and the Internet

The past 20 years saw a wealth of new technology that has has shaped the society we live in today. Over these years, I believe the creation of the internet stands out the most. The internet has increased the speed in which people receive information. It has made business move quicker then ever imagined and made information strictly for the basis of entertainment more accessible. Unfortunately the positive aspects of the internet don’t come without the negative. The invention of the internet has contributed some what, in part to sexual addiction. Society shuns sexual addicts, and degrades them. I have heard it once said that internet to sexual addicts is like cocaine to chemical addicts. It is very hard to overcome. This paper discusses that although the internet can be an informative and positive tool, it can be detrimental to the sexual addict.

The sexual addiction cycle begins first with stimulation through the eyes. Before the internet, a sexual addict would have to leave the house, go to an adult video store, purchase the movie or magazine of his choice, and then go home to feed his addiction. It took a lot of time to act on the urge to act out. Much more premeditation was involved.

With the internet now, urges are satisfied almost immediately with just a few clicks of the mouse. According to http://www.xxxchurch.com/, six to eight percent of all Americans are sex addicts and nine out of ten adolescents have viewed pornography on the internet. This website also states roughly 200,000 Americans are hopelessly addicted to internet pornography.

The internet has created a whole new world. A “cybersex” world for individuals who delve into the world of fantasy, plugging in with chat rooms, video and pictures of pornography, letters and books of stories of sex, sexual games, and much more. According to the book titled, In the Shadow of the Net: Breaking Free of Compulsive Online Sexual Behavior, “As of January 1999, there were 19,542,710 unique visitors to the top five pay porn sites. Seventeen percent of internet users have problems with sex on the net. There is a plethora of pornography sites on the internet, and approximately 200 sex-related websites are added each and every day.” (Carnes, 2001)

I believe that society is removed from sex addicts. In general, society tries not to acknowledge them and refuses to see the problem internet pornography creates. It seems as though society isn’t doing much about the problem and is accepting it as a mere nuisance with the justification that the internet is too powerful of an engine to stop. I truly believe that the internet is an invaluable resource that has helped so many, but I also believe that internet pornography has become very dangerous and detrimental to society. It is a problem that is growing and needs to be addressed. Sexual addicts who struggle with their addiction tend to have little hope when it comes to the internet.

Although this problem is steadily growing, books such as In the Shadow of the Net: Breaking Free of Compulsive Online Sexual Behavior are slowly shedding light on the problem. This is very encouraging to see, because the media is very afraid to address sexual addiction issues. I think that the public needs to be more aware of the problems out there regarding the internet and sexual addiction and be given the information they need in order to get help.

References:

  • Carnes, Patrick, Ph. D., Delmonico, David L., Ph. D., Griffin, Elizabeth, M. A., & Moriarity, Joseph M. (2001). In the Shadow of the Net: Breaking Free of Compulsive Online Sexual Behavior. Illinois: Hazelden.
  • Factoids. Retrieved April 19th, 2005, From http://www.xxxchurch.com/bunny/factoids.asp.

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