Wednesday, May 28, 2008

Entrusting: Part V

Entrust (verb):

  • To give over (something) to another for care, protection, or performance.
  • To give as a trust to (someone).
  • To charge or invest with a trust or responsibility; charge with a specified office or duty involving trust.
  • To commit (something) in trust to; confide, as for care, use, or performance.

Here are the previous posts on this study:

Entrusting

  • Inspired by Prayer (Luke 6:12)
  • Self Sacrifice
  • Purposeful
  • Unconditional
  • Inspired by God
  • One Poured Out
  • Oblivious
  • Intention Development
  • Vision Led and Long Term

Entrustment is Faith
Definition: Firm belief in something or someone for which there is no proof.

Even at Jesus’ Death there was no proof!

Jesus’ Death was like a Single Seed.

Unless You Die!

John 12:24 says: I tell you the truth, unless a kernel of wheat falls to the ground and dies, it remains only a single seed. But if it dies, it produces many seeds.

When a seed Dies it is not Guaranteed to Multiply.

Luke 8:11-15
"This is the meaning of the parable: The seed is the word of God. Those along the path are the ones who hear, and then the devil comes and takes away the word from their hearts, so that they may not believe and be saved. Those on the rock are the ones who receive the word with joy when they hear it, but they have no root. They believe for a while, but in the time of testing they fall away. The seed that fell among thorns stands for those who hear, but as they go on their way they are choked by life's worries, riches and pleasures, and they do not mature. But the seed on good soil stands for those with a noble and good heart, who hear the word, retain it, and by persevering produce a crop."
Apostolic Soils:
  • Those heard and never responded (Path)
  • Those who followed with joy, time of testing will fall away, had no root. ‘Then Jesus told them, “This very night you will all fall away on account of me, for it is written: “ ‘I will strike the shepherd, and the sheep of the flock will be scattered’ (Matt 26:31)
  • Those who where choked by riches of Life (Judas).
There is no Fruit until you Die!

Am I entrusting in others? Am I willing to go as far as death for others? These are great questions... and I often tell myself it would be easier to die for someone physically than to be consistent spiritually. I do not know if that makes sense, but my wife agreed with me that it does. I think the idea is dying to self... and that it so much harder than simply loosing my physical life. Johnny Out.

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Being Clean

This one above is the last time I will post it. I am retiring that logo...
for this one here, the logo-6 replacement. The one up top is just too busy for me. Anyway, this study is about being clean. And when I say clean, I mean spiritually clean. It is often too easy to be dirty. Dirty with sin of this or that nature. And I can fall into the dirty category just as easy as anyone else can.

The Bible is full of scriptures that talk about clean and cleanliness. Doing an NIV search, I found 111 passages with the word clean in it. Do all of them use clean in the meaning of being clean without sin? Probably not. But that is beside the point. Some, if not most, do. And that is where this study is going to be focused.

And the question is, do you want to be something clean for God, like the towels above? Or do you want to be unclean, like the towel below? Both are useful, but one can only be used to make others clean.
Proverbs 51:1-19
Have mercy on me, O God, according to your unfailing love; according to your great compassion blot out my transgressions. Wash away all my iniquity and cleanse me from my sin. For I know my transgressions, and my sin is always before me. Against you, you only, have I sinned and done what is evil in your sight, so that you are proved right when you speak and justified when you judge. Surely I was sinful at birth, sinful from the time my mother conceived me. Surely you desire truth in the inner parts; you teach me wisdom in the inmost place. Cleanse me with hyssop, and I will be clean; wash me, and I will be whiter than snow. Let me hear joy and gladness; let the bones you have crushed rejoice. Hide your face from my sins and blot out all my iniquity. Create in me a pure heart, O God, and renew a steadfast spirit within me. Do not cast me from your presence or take your Holy Spirit from me. Restore to me the joy of your salvation and grant me a willing spirit, to sustain me. Then I will teach transgressors your ways, and sinners will turn back to you. Save me from bloodguilt, O God, the God who saves me, and my tongue will sing of your righteousness. O Lord, open my lips, and my mouth will declare your praise. You do not delight in sacrifice, or I would bring it; you do not take pleasure in burnt offerings. The sacrifices of God are a broken spirit; a broken and contrite heart, O God, you will not despise. In your good pleasure make Zion prosper; build up the walls of Jerusalem. Then there will be righteous sacrifices, whole burnt offerings to delight you; then bulls will be offered on your altar.

Starting out with a Psalm has to be encouraging. At least it is for me. I will knock on this door a little more tomorrow. Johnny Out.

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Sunday, May 25, 2008

Texas Heritage Service

Ah, a service at the park. I do like going to outdoor services. They are fun, however, Mackenzie can be a bit of a challenge at times. I will have to start preparing him for this service. Hopefully it will be more fun this year than last year.

Saturday, May 24, 2008

Emotion Study: Affection

Learning to Meet the Need of Affection

This is an area where I need to grow in. I need to grow in it in great abundance. And because of that, I am in study.

Affection is the most important emotional need for many, if not most, women. While it is sometimes among the top five emotional needs of men, it is rarely at the top of the list. That’s why it’s so hard for some men to understand its critical importance to their wives.

In His Needs, Her Needs, chapter 3, I explain this tragic situation and how men can learn to become more affectionate. To illustrate my point, I describe a day in the life of an affectionate husband:

  • He hugs and kisses his wife every morning while they are still in bed.
  • He tells her that he loves her while they have breakfast together.
  • He kisses her before leaving for work.
  • He calls her during the day to see how she’s doing.
  • He buys her flowers once in a while as a surprise and includes his hand-written note expressing his love for her.
  • After work, he calls her before he leaves for home, so that she can know when to expect him.
  • When he arrives home from work, he gives her a hug and kiss and spends a few minutes talking to her about how her day went.
  • He helps her with the dishes after dinner.
  • He hugs and kisses her in bed before they go to sleep.

I’ve heard people complain that once affection becomes mechanical, or habitual, it loses its meaning. If it’s not spontaneous, it doesn’t reflect the deep feelings of affection. My answer to that complaint is that if you wait for spontaneity, you’ll be waiting most of your lifetime, especially if your spouse doesn’t share your intense need for affection.

Our behavior is not very spontaneous; it’s essentially habitual. Most of what we do, we repeat again and again. We have limited information-processing capability, and our brains turn most of our behavior into habits so that we can devote our attention to emergencies and new situations. This is what makes our brains efficient. If we had to think about everything we did, we’d need brains the size of houses!

If your spouse needs affection, get used to the idea that you’ll have to learn habits of affection. If they seem boring or mechanical to your spouse, the truth is that you’ve failed to develop the habits that actually meet her needs for affection. Learning to develop the correct habits of affection requires knowing something about your spouse’s reaction to your affectionate habits.

Once you have identified affectionate habits that your spouse would like you to create and others that you should avoid, decide on a plan that will help you form desirable habits and avoid undesirable ones.

Affection (noun):

  • Synonyms: liking, friendliness, amity, fondness, friendship, love, devotion, loyalty.
  • Fond attachment, devotion, or love.
  • A tender feeling toward another; fondness.
  • A positive feeling of liking.
  • A settled good will; kind feeling; love; zealous or tender attachment.
  • The condition of being closely tied to another by affection or faith.

Deuteronomy 10:14-16
To the LORD your God belong the heavens, even the highest heavens, the earth and everything in it. Yet the LORD set his affection on your forefathers and loved them, and he chose you, their descendants, above all the nations, as it is today. Circumcise your hearts, therefore, and do not be stiff-necked any longer.

God shows affection. If God is affection, then I should be affectionate. And trust me, I need to learn how to be affectionate.

I think the counter is a bit bright. I will have to dump it and change it around for tomorrow. Johnny Out.

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Friday, May 23, 2008

Mother's Day 2008

This is one of those Quiet Times I ended up putting off... I am not sure why. But, I guess it is better late than never.

Genesis 17:15-16
God also said to Abraham, "As for Sarai your wife, you are no longer to call her Sarai; her name will be Sarah. I will bless her and will surely give you a son by her. I will bless her so that she will be the mother of nations; kings of peoples will come from her."

Exodus 20:12
"Honor your father and your mother, so that you may live long in the land the LORD your God is giving you."

Exodus 21:15,17
"Anyone who attacks his father or his mother must be put to death. "Anyone who curses his father or mother must be put to death."

Leviticus 19:3
"'Each of you must respect his mother and father, and you must observe my Sabbaths. I am the LORD your God."

Leviticus 21:10-12
"'The high priest, the one among his brothers who has had the anointing oil poured on his head and who has been ordained to wear the priestly garments, must not let his hair become unkempt or tear his clothes. He must not enter a place where there is a dead body. He must not make himself unclean, even for his father or mother, nor leave the sanctuary of his God or desecrate it, because he has been dedicated by the anointing oil of his God. I am the LORD."

Now, I am finding this last scripture quite interesting. I think all of these scriptures are brilliant and applicable to today, but this last one has caught my attention. I think I am going to meditate on it, let it roll around my head a bit and come back to it tomorrow.
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Thursday, May 22, 2008

Entrusting: Part IV

Entrust (verb):

  • To give over (something) to another for care, protection, or performance.
  • To give as a trust to (someone).
  • To charge or invest with a trust or responsibility; charge with a specified office or duty involving trust.
  • To commit (something) in trust to; confide, as for care, use, or performance.

This study is being based off the previous three posts on Entrusting:

Jesus Had His Moments:

They discussed this with one another and said, “It is because we have no bread.” Aware of their discussion, Jesus asked them: “Why are you talking about having no bread? Do you still not see or understand? Are your hearts hardened? (Mark 8:16-17)

“O unbelieving generation,” Jesus replied, “how long shall I stay with you? How long shall I put up with you? Bring the boy to me.” (Mark 9:19)

True Entrustment:

  • Poured out in to Others.
  • Working with immaturity and falsehood.
  • Working with Ordinary and Unschooled (prejudge).
  • No Expectation of Return.
  • No appreciation for your efforts.
  • Press on through setbacks.
  • Sometimes Betrayal.
  • Loneliness (Reliance on God).
  • Seems Fruitless.
  • Unconditional Love.
  • Even Death.
  • Fruits may happen after your time.

Trusting verses Entrusting: Trusting:

  • Inspired by Friendship
  • Mutual Giving
  • Non Binding
  • Conditional
  • Decision between two
  • Combined Effort
  • Appreciated
  • Passive
  • Short Term



I've had my QTs away from the computer of late. And I'm still solid for the month! That is super Kudos on consistency. Tomorrow, I will come back to this and post some further comments on this. Johnny Out.

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God and Baseball

Baseball and the Bible. You gotta love it!

And Abner said to Job, "Let the young men arise...and play before us" (IISamuel 2:14)
...and the people rose up (Exodus 33.8)
...and Jehosophat was the recorder and Sheva the scribe (IISamuel 20:24-25)
...and they said unto Jephthah, "come and be our [captain]" (Judges 11:6)
...and he measured two lines (IISamuel 8:2)
...and he set bases (I Kings 7:39)
...and they stood every man in his place around the camp (Judges 7:21)
...and behold, Rebekah came forth with her pitcher (Genesis 24:45)
...Ehud the Benjamite, a man left handed (Judges 3:15)
...the children of Israel said "who shall go up for us first?" (Judges 20:18)
...seek out a man who is a skillfull player (I Samuel 16:16)
...Judah shall go up first (Judges 20:18)
...and Judah took (Judges 1:18)
...three times (Exodus 7:20)
...and it was good (Genesis 1:10)
...and Abram went down (Genesis 12:10)
...out at the base (Leviticus 4:18)
...and Moses smote (Exodus 7:20)
...and it became foul (Exodus 7:20)
...and Moses went out (Numbers 11:24)
...and none came in (Joshua 6:1)
...and there was not a man left (Joshua 8:17)
...and Miriam was shut out (Numbers 12:15)
...and the children of Benjamin went out (Judges 20:31)
...and went into the field (Numbers 22:23)
...and Aaron waved (Leviticus 9:21)
...and he looked this way and that way (Exodus 2:12)
...and he delivered up (Numbers 21:3)
...and they ran as soon as he had stretched out his hand (Joshua 8:19)
...and they fell on their faces on the ground (Judges 13:20)
...get thee up!, wherefore now art thou fallen upon thy face? (Joshua 7:10)
...for it was an error (Numbers 15:25)
...second and third (Genesis 6:16)
...and Joseph spoke (Genesis 45:3)
...concerning the error which he committed (Leviticus 5:18)
...make an atonement for thy self (Leviticus 9:7)
...thou shalt fan them (Isaiah 41:16)
...then Joseph commanded them to fill their sacks (Genesis 42:25)
...and all the people saw it and then they shouted (Leviticus 9:24)
..."who can stand before the giants?!" (Deuteronomy 9:2)
...and Aaron waved (Leviticus 9:21)
...and pitched on the other side (Numbers 21:13)
...and suffered not a man to pass (Judges 3:28)
...but the seventh (Exodus 31:15)
...Gideon smote (Judges 8:11)
...Israel at first (Jeremiah 33:7)
...and Noah went in (Genesis 7:7)
...and there ran a young man (Numbers 11:27)
...he turned and went back (Judges 26)
...unto the base (Numbers 8:4)
...Noah walked (Genesis 6:9)
...let us go and sacrafice (Exodus 5:8)
...and Moses lifted up his hand and smote with his rod (Numbers 20:11)
...the hide (Leviticus 20:4)
...a long blast (Joshua 6:5)
...outside the camp (Judges 7:17)
...for a 'omer (Exodus 16:36)
...and the men of Israel and of Judah arose and shouted! (I Samuel 17:52)

Sweet!

Monday, May 19, 2008

Understanding Addiction to Tobacco

Understanding Addiction

There are more than 4,000 chemicals found in the smoke of tobacco products. Of these, nicotine, first identified in the early 1800s, is the primary reinforcing component of tobacco that acts on the brain.

Cigarette smoking is the most popular method of using tobacco; however, there has also been a recent increase in the sale and consumption of smokeless tobacco products, such as snuff and chewing tobacco. These smokeless products also contain nicotine, as well as many toxic chemicals.

The cigarette is a very efficient and highly engineered drug delivery system. By inhaling tobacco smoke, the average smoker takes in 1 to 2 mg of nicotine per cigarette. When tobacco is smoked, nicotine rapidly reaches peak levels in the bloodstream and enters the brain. A typical smoker will take 10 puffs on a cigarette over a period of 5 minutes that the cigarette is lit. Thus, a person who smokes about 1-1/2 packs (30 cigarettes) daily gets 300 "hits" of nicotine to the brain each day. In those who typically do not inhale the smoke, such as cigar and pipe smokers and smokeless tobacco users, nicotine is absorbed through the mucosal membranes and reaches peak blood levels and the brain more slowly.

Immediately after exposure to nicotine, there is a "kick" caused in part by the drug's stimulation of the adrenal glands and resulting discharge of epinephrine (adrenaline). The rush of adrenaline stimulates the body and causes a sudden release of glucose, as well as an increase in blood pressure, respiration, and heart rate. Nicotine also suppresses insulin output from the pancreas, which means that smokers are always slightly hyperglycemic (i.e., they have elevated blood sugar levels). The calming effect of nicotine reported by many users is usually associated with a decline in withdrawal effects rather than direct effects of nicotine.

The Power of Nicotine

Most smokers use tobacco regularly because they are addicted to nicotine. Addiction is characterized by compulsive drug seeking and use, even in the face of negative health consequences. It is well documented that most smokers identify tobacco use as harmful and express a desire to reduce or stop using it, and nearly 35 million of them want to quit each year. Unfortunately, only about 6 percent of people who try to quit are successful for more than a month.

Research has shown how nicotine acts on the brain to produce a number of effects. Of primary importance to its addictive nature are findings that nicotine activates reward pathways—the brain circuitry that regulates feelings of pleasure. A key brain chemical involved in mediating the desire to consume drugs is the neurotransmitter dopamine, and research has shown that nicotine increases levels of dopamine in the reward circuits. This reaction is similar to that seen with other drugs of abuse, and is thought to underlie the pleasurable sensations experienced by many smokers. Nicotine's pharmacokinetic properties also enhance its abuse potential. Cigarette smoking produces a rapid distribution of nicotine to the brain, with drug levels peaking within 10 seconds of inhalation. However, the acute effects of nicotine dissipate in a few minutes, as do the associated feelings of reward, which causes the smoker to continue dosing to maintain the drug's pleasurable effects and prevent withdrawal.

Nicotine withdrawal symptoms include irritability, craving, cognitive and attentional deficits, sleep disturbances, and increased appetite. These symptoms may begin within a few hours after the last cigarette, quickly driving people back to tobacco use. Symptoms peak within the first few days of smoking cessation and may subside within a few weeks. For some people, however, symptoms may persist for months. While withdrawal is related to the pharmacological effects of nicotine, many behavioral factors can also affect the severity of withdrawal symptoms. For some people, the feel, smell, and sight of a cigarette and the ritual of obtaining, handling, lighting, and smoking the cigarette are all associated with the pleasurable effects of smoking and can make withdrawal or craving worse. While nicotine gum and patches may alleviate the pharmacological aspects of withdrawal, cravings often persist. Other forms of nicotine replacement, such as inhalers, attempt to address some of these other issues, while behavioral therapies can help smokers identify environmental triggers of withdrawal and craving so they can employ strategies to prevent or circumvent these symptoms and urges.

Why Quit?

Quitting smoking is one of the most important things you will ever do. Why? Here are just a few good reasons:

  • You will live longer and live better.
  • Quitting will lower your chance of having a heart attack, stroke, or cancer.
  • If you are pregnant, quitting smoking will improve your chances of having a healthy baby.
  • The people you live with, especially your children, will be healthier.
  • You will have extra money to spend on things other than cigarettes.

Immediate and Long Term Benefits

Within 20 minutes after you smoke that last cigarette, your body begins a series of changes that continue for years.

20 Minutes After Quitting Your heart rate drops.

12 hours After Quitting Carbon monoxide level in your blood drops to normal.

2 Weeks to 3 Months After Quitting Your heart attack risk begins to drop. Your lung function begins to improve.

1 to 9 Months After Quitting Your Coughing and shortness of breath decrease.

1 Year After Quitting Your added risk of coronary heart disease is half that of a smoker's.

5 Years After Quitting Your stroke risk is reduced to that of a nonsmoker's

5-15 years after quitting.

10 Years After Quitting Your lung cancer death rate is about half that of a smoker's. Your risk of cancers of the mouth, throat, esophagus, bladder, kidney, and pancreas decreases.

15 Years After Quitting Your risk of coronary heart disease is back to that of a nonsmoker's.

Need more convincing? Compared to smokers, your:

  • Stroke risk is reduced to that of a person who never smoked after 5 to 15 years of not smoking
  • Cancers of the mouth, throat, and esophagus risks are halved 5 years after quitting
  • Cancer of the larynx risk is reduced after quitting
  • Coronary heart disease risk is cut by half 1 year after quitting and is nearly the same as someone who never smoked 15 years after quitting
  • Chronic obstructive pulmonary disease risk of death is reduced after you quit Lung cancer risk drops by as much as half 10 years after quitting
  • Ulcer risk drops after quitting
  • Bladder cancer risk is halved a few years after quitting
  • Peripheral artery disease goes down after quitting
  • Cervical cancer risk is reduced a few years after quitting
  • Low birth weight baby risk drops to normal if you quit before pregnancy or during your first trimester the benefits of quitting


Questions to Think About

Think about the following questions before you try to stop smoking. You may want to talk about your answers with your health care provider.

1. Why do you want to quit?

2. When you tried to quit in the past, what helped and what didn't?

3. What will be the most difficult situations for you after you quit? How will you plan to handle them?

4. Who can help you through the tough times? Your family? Friends? Health care provider?

5. What pleasures do you get from smoking? What ways can you still get pleasure if you quit?

Here are some questions to ask your health care provider.

1. How can you help me to be successful at quitting?

2. What medication do you think would be best for me and how should I take it?

3. What should I do if I need more help?

4. What is smoking withdrawal like? How can I get information on withdrawal?

TERMS:
  • addiction: A chronic, relapsing disease characterized by compulsive drug seeking and abuse and by long-lasting neurochemical and molecular changes in the brain.
  • adrenal glands: Glands located above each kidney that secrete hormones, e.g., adrenaline.
  • craving: A powerful, often uncontrollable desire for drugs.
  • dopamine: A neurotransmitter present in regions of the brain that regulate movement, emotion, motivation, and feelings of pleasure.
  • emphysema: A lung disease in which tissue deterioration results in increased air retention and reduced exchange of gases. The result is difficulty breathing and shortness of breath.
  • hyperglycemic: The presence of an abnormally high concentration of glucose in the blood.
  • neurotransmitter: A chemical that acts as a messenger to carry signals or information from one nerve cell to another.
  • nicotine: An alkaloid derived from the tobacco plant that is responsible for smoking's psychoactive and addictive effects.
  • pharmacokinetics: The pattern of absorption, distribution, and excretion of a drug over time.
  • rush: A surge of euphoria that rapidly follows administration of some drugs.
  • tobacco: A plant widely cultivated for its leaves, which are used primarily for smoking; the N. tabacum species is the major source of tobacco products.
  • withdrawal: A variety of symptoms that occur after chronic use of an addictive drug is reduced or stopped.

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Tuesday, May 13, 2008

"Tees of the Future" by Johnny Ray

The shirt would list stocks, news, and sports information - it would have a feature that could project 3D images that the wearer was most interested, should they wish to use such a feature.

"Tees of the Future" by Johnny Ray

This shirt is a medical shirt, designed to be in touch with the wearer's body. If an organ isn't performing correctly, either very slowly or too rapidly, the shirt will react and identify the organ in question as well as letting the wearer know what the "misfunction" would be.

Thursday, May 08, 2008

Entrusting: Part III

Entrust (verb):

  • To give over (something) to another for care, protection, or performance.
  • To give as a trust to (someone).
  • To charge or invest with a trust or responsibility; charge with a specified office or duty involving trust.
  • To commit (something) in trust to; confide, as for care, use, or performance.


This study is being based off the previous two posts on Entrusting:

Entrusted with God’s Word (Rom 3:2)

  • God does entrust those who are obedient.
  • Circumcision is refered to as a circumsion of the heart, not a physical circumcision.

Entrusted with a measure of Faith (Rom 12:3)

  • Think about this... God has given a measure of Faith to me. And to you. And what am I doing with that faith he has given?

We will not be tempted beyond our Faith (1 Cor 10:13)

  • Since God has given me faith, God knows what I can and cannot stand up against, in regards to temptation.
  • God entrusts me to stand up against temptation, since he is not allowing more than I can handle.

Entrusted with the secrets of God (1 Cor 4:1)

  • I should be regarded as one entrusted with God's secrets.
  • The Secrets of God Study to come soon.

Entrusted with God’s Kingdom (Matt 25:14)

  • Everyone is given a talent (at least one).
  • You can look at this as being a gift. Whatever it is, it is property given by God.
  • The talent is to be multiplied.
  • The talent is to be used to grow God's kingdom.
  • If the talent does not grow, it will be taken away.
  • If the talent is taken away, the person who had the talent will be sent to hell.

Corporate America: Executive Core Qualifications (ECQs).

Results driven refers to accountability and continuous improvement. It includes the ability to make timely and effective decisions and produce results through strategic planning and the implementation and evaluation of programs and policies. (from: www.ntc.blm.gov/leadership)

Jesus would have made a Lousy CEO.

Why? Because Jesus Entrusted:

  • Set apart as Apostles (Luke 6:12)
  • Gave them Spiritual Gifts (Matt 10:1)
  • Three Years of Teaching
  • Intentional Instruction
  • Taught by Example
  • Showed them Miracles (Jn 6:19) and Transfiguration
  • Poured Himself Out (John 15:13-15)
  • Gave a Kingdom Vision
  • Eternal Promise (John 14:2)
  • Vision to do greater things than Him (John 14:12)
  • Die and suffered on the Cross

Their Response

  • Immaturity
  • Infighting
  • Short Sighted
  • Lack of Faith
  • Lack of Gratitude
  • No Character
  • Unaware for God’s plan for Them.
  • Could not stay awake in His hour of need.
  • Betrayal
  • Acted like they did not know Him
  • Left him at the Cross
  • Went back to their old life.
  • Oblivious of God’s Eternal Plan
Tomorrow, I am going to look at the scriptures of how Jesus entrusted.

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Weight Loss Tips from Jillian Michaels

The Sumo Squat
Have you ever seen a Sumo match? These wrestlers may look funny (and flabby), but they're actually powerhouses of strength and balance. In the beginning of a match, the two opponents face off while performing a special type of squat in slow motion. Lifting one leg while leaning to the side, they use their full weight and power to strike the mat. After repeating this move with the other leg, the wrestlers then sink down into a deep, wide-leg squat.

You'll probably never have to intimidate a competitor in the ring, but doing this Sumo-inspired exercise will strengthen your inner and outer thighs. Best of all, there's no loincloth required!

Sumo Squat
1. Place your feet apart as wide possible while pointing toes outward.
2. Lower your body until your thighs are parallel to the floor.
3. Hold for a beat, exhale, press back up to starting position, and repeat.

Remember to keep your shoulders directly over your hips at all times. For best results, don't lean forward or let your knees come out over your toes. Keep your abs drawn in and don't arch your back.

Workout: Thursday

Warm-Up
Circuit 1: Dumbbell Chest Press, Squats, Jumping Rope
Circuit 2: Dumbbell Chest Fly, Wall Squat, Jumping Rope
Circuit 3: Bench Dip, Lying Leg Raises, Jumping Rope
Circuit 4: Military Shoulder Press, Basic Crunch, Jumping Rope
Circuit 5: Tricep Kickbacks, Reverse Crunches, Jumping Rope
Cool Down

Calorie Counting Made Easy
Counting the number of calories you consume daily is a must if you want to reach your goal weight. After all, how will the "calories in, calories out" weight-loss formula work if you have no idea how many you eat every day?

Getting an accurate calorie tally is easy on days when you can measure all the meals and snacks you prepare with the help of measuring cups and a scale. Once you've measured, you can get the right number by adding up the calories based on portion size. But, how can you estimate calories when you can't measure ahead of time?

If you find yourself in a situation where you can't measure your servings, here are some useful tips for assessing portion sizes using your hand:
  • The size of your fist is roughly equal to a cup-size serving of cereal, wild rice, black beans, etc.
  • The size of your thumb is roughly equal to an ounce-size serving of cheese.
  • The center of your palm of your hand, without fingers, is roughly equal to a 3-ounce serving of fish, chicken, beef, and so on.
I told you it was easy! Now you have no excuse to blow your calorie limit for the day!

Avoiding Dangerous Situations
The key to success on any fitness program is having a game plan for any situation that might throw you off course. It isn't brain surgery — it's common sense. Think of yourself as being on a mission: If you take the time to think ahead, you can come up with ways to combat every situation. Here are a few surefire strategies:

Go through your kitchen and throw out all the junk food and processed garbage immediately. (Hey, you can't eat it if it's not there!) Don't buy these foods anymore — just eliminate them from your kitchen entirely. Even if you have to put up with a little whining from the kids or your spouse, they're better off not eating that crap (tell them I said so!). Reacquaint yourself with your local supermarket, find the healthy sections, and try to avoid the foods make you feel powerless.

If you run into trouble at the office, try to make an effort to avoid the high-voltage areas. If there is a vending machine in the kitchen or if the cafeteria features frightfully fattening foods, stay away from these places. Bring healthy snacks and meals from home to stash in your desk. Do whatever you can to steer clear of anything that might throw you off course and hamper your success.

How to Warm Up
Q: Jillian, what kind of exercises do you recommend for warm-up routines?
A: I'm so glad you asked! Warming up is important because it literally warms up your body and gets it ready for the tough workout ahead. If you have any cardio equipment at home — like a treadmill or a stationary bike — jump on there for five to ten minutes.

If you don't have equipment at home, you can still warm up effectively. No excuses! If you have limbs, you're good to go! If It's pretty simple — you can march in place, jump rope, or do jumping jacks for the same amount of time.

The trick is work up a light sweat. If you're not sweating, you're not working out hard enough!

Do What You Love
Doing your first cardio workout can be a little overwhelming, particularly if you're working out at the gym. There are rows and rows of different machines to choose from. So how do you know which kinds of cardio are best? Do you walk, row, step, or climb your way to fitness?

The answer is any of these. You should do whatever you enjoy the most — just make sure you're pushing yourself and keeping your heart rate at 85 percent. Sure, there are machines that are more effective than others. But, if you dread and avoid certain exercises, it will be harder to motivate yourself, right?

Make sure to keep it fresh — if you've been doing the treadmill for a while, switch to the stepper for a few weeks. If you only have access to one type of cardio machine, you can change the way you use it every once in a while so that you are avoiding the workout plateau and keeping yourself challenged and motivated.

When There's No Gym
Jumping rope and jumping jacks are excellent forms of cardio that you can do anywhere. It takes time to build up endurance for this form of exercise, so try it in intervals at first — jump one minute, rest the next, and so on. This is an outstanding form of cardio that burns calories and tones the quads, hamstrings, and calves. Try different types of jumps to target different leg muscles. When jumping rope, try kicking your butt (sounds funny, huh?) or bringing your knees up as high as you can in between jumps. The possibilities are endless with this simple activity.

Tune Into Your Body

Your body is trying to tell you something, but you're just not listening! To win at the weight-loss game, you've got to make some changes. One of the most important ones is to stop listening to anything but your body to establish a realistic weight for your specific build. Forget about what you see and hear from pop-culture sources.

Another thing not to rely on is the body mass index (BMI), which determines the amount of fat you have on your body according to your weight and height. Here's why you're not going to use it: It fails to distinguish between fat and muscle, so the BMI will ultimately give you an incomplete sense of the shape you're in.

Today, the medical industry has set its weight guidelines according to the waist-to-hip-ratio method, which is a much more accurate way of arriving at an ideal goal. Follow these steps to find yours:
  • Get a tape measure and measure your waist right at the belly-button line.
  • Standing with feet hip-width apart, measure your hips at their widest point.
  • Now simply divide your waist measurement by your hip measurement. This is your waist-to-hip ratio.
The ideal waist-to-hip ratios are 0.80 for women and 0.95 for men.

Don't Be Another Number
No matter what number you've arrived at after checking your waist-to-hip ratio, don't be discouraged. Beating yourself up is never a solution. As you lose weight and get fit, you will reduce and redistribute your fat, both of which lower your waist-to-hip ratio. Use the information as a way to determine a realistic expectation for yourself, not as another means to judge yourself negatively. Let go of unrealistic notions of what you think you should look like. Start looking at yourself honestly and see what can be done to look and feel your personal best. Then, begin to embrace your unique self.

Retrain Yourself
A key element of changing your attitude is changing your self-talk or internal monologue. Your self-talk is that chattering conversation you have with yourself all day long, whether you are aware of it or not. It's the voice in your head that says, "I'm too fat" or "I'm not good enough." I don't need to go on, do I? You know what I'm talking about!

Well, it's this kind of useless negativity that's keeping you from being the best that you can be. Now it's time to turn it around once and for all. You need to retrain yourself to think positively!

Imagine what would happen if you changed the dialogue so that it sounded more like this: "I can lose weight and be healthy, exercise to the best of my ability, and get stronger and better at it every time I do it." Your self-talk can make the difference between happiness and despair, success and failure. I can promise you that if you start making your self-talk more “positive and affirming” and less “defeatist and self-depreciating” your whole life will change for the better.

Rewrite Your Thoughts
Now that you know how important it is to have the right attitude to reach your goals in life, pull out your journal again. Review what you wrote down last week. Doesn't it feel good to read the positive thoughts? Don't you just cringe when you read the negative ones? Start re-training yourself. Change all the negative thoughts into positive ones. For example, take "I feel so gross when I eat the whole bag of chips" and turn it into "When I eat healthy, I feel great. And when I feel great, I look great." Hang in there — before you know it, you'll be able to "rewrite" negative thoughts in your mind.

Getting Back on the Wagon
It happens — you miss a few workouts in a row because of a late night at the office and suddenly your weight-loss efforts seemed derailed. It's tempting to mentally slap yourself around, isn't it? Well, chill out! Being hard on yourself is the old you, remember?

Now, you know to take setbacks in stride and get right back on that wagon. You wouldn't think of wasting even a minute to beat up on yourself. After all, there are no mistakes, just learning experiences. Weight loss is a process and every process takes time. You will encounter small failures — everybody does! Remember, every pound you gain can be lost.

If you miss a workout, it's not the end of the world! Get to the gym the next day and continue to focus on your short-term goals. Just because you made bad choices today doesn't mean you can't start over tomorrow. I know it sounds trite, but every day is truly a new beginning.

Rescue Me
Let's face it, life throws curveballs. Most of the time we can dodge them, but other times they hit us right between the eyes. You can't avoid every curveball in life. For those moments when you feel one coming, create a "rescue me list." Make a list of healthy things that make you feel better, like taking a bubble bath, going for a walk, getting a massage, etc. The next time you're staring down a crisis, reach for that list, not a bag of chips.

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Wednesday, May 07, 2008

Entrusting: Part II

So... this is a review of yesterday's study...

Entrust (verb):

  • To give over (something) to another for care, protection, or performance.
  • To give as a trust to (someone).
  • To charge or invest with a trust or responsibility; charge with a specified office or duty involving trust.
  • To commit (something) in trust to; confide, as for care, use, or performance.

Now, I have been entrusted by God.

And to be entrusted by God is a serious matter. Why? Well, if God gives something to me, entrusts something to me, he is confiding and investing in me. That means I should give God something back on his investment. If not, I am a loss. And no invester cares for a loss.

I Have Been Entrusted:

  • Entrusted with God’s Word (Rom 3:2)

Romans 2:25 to 3:2 says: Circumcision has value if you observe the law, but if you break the law, you have become as though you had not been circumcised. If those who are not circumcised keep the law's requirements, will they not be regarded as though they were circumcised? The one who is not circumcised physically and yet obeys the law will condemn you who, even though you have the written code and circumcision, are a lawbreaker.

A man is not a Jew if he is only one outwardly, nor is circumcision merely outward and physical. No, a man is a Jew if he is one inwardly; and circumcision is circumcision of the heart, by the Spirit, not by the written code. Such a man's praise is not from men, but from God.

What advantage, then, is there in being a Jew, or what value is there in circumcision? Much in every way! First of all, they have been entrusted with the very words of God.

  • Entrusted with a measure of Faith (Rom 12:3)

Romans 12:3 Says: For by the grace given me I say to every one of you: Do not think of yourself more highly than you ought, but rather think of yourself with sober judgment, in accordance with the measure of faith God has given you.

  • We will not be tempted beyond our Faith (1 Cor 10:13)

1 Corinthians 10:13 Says: No temptation has seized you except what is common to man. And God is faithful; he will not let you be tempted beyond what you can bear. But when you are tempted, he will also provide a way out so that you can stand up under it.

  • Entrusted with the secrets of God (1 Cor 4:1)

1 Corinthians 4:1 Says: So then, men ought to regard us as servants of Christ and as those entrusted with the secret things of God.

  • Entrusted with God’s Kingdom (Matt 25:14)

Matthew 25:14 Says: "Again, it will be like a man going on a journey, who called his servants and entrusted his property to them."

Here's more of this parable: "To one he gave five talents of money, to another two talents, and to another one talent, each according to his ability. Then he went on his journey. The man who had received the five talents went at once and put his money to work and gained five more. So also, the one with the two talents gained two more. But the man who had received the one talent went off, dug a hole in the ground and hid his master's money."

"Then the man who had received the one talent came. 'Master,' he said, 'I knew that you are a hard man, harvesting where you have not sown and gathering where you have not scattered seed. So I was afraid and went out and hid your talent in the ground. See, here is what belongs to you.'"

"His master replied, 'You wicked, lazy servant! So you knew that I harvest where I have not sown and gather where I have not scattered seed? Well then, you should have put my money on deposit with the bankers, so that when I returned I would have received it back with interest."

"'Take the talent from him and give it to the one who has the ten talents. For everyone who has will be given more, and he will have an abundance. Whoever does not have, even what he has will be taken from him. And throw that worthless servant outside, into the darkness, where there will be weeping and gnashing of teeth.'" (Matthew 25:15-18, 24-30)

I am a bit emotional right now. I think I might comment some tomorrow... I don't know. Johnny Out.

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Tuesday, May 06, 2008

Entrusting: Part I

This is the goal... to entrust as God entrust's me. What is entrusting?

Entrust (verb):

  • To give over (something) to another for care, protection, or performance.
  • To give as a trust to (someone).
  • To charge or invest with a trust or responsibility; charge with a specified office or duty involving trust.
  • To commit (something) in trust to; confide, as for care, use, or performance.



According to Your Faith!

Entrusted

360 Billion Dollar Check!

Man Tries to Cash a Check!

Police said Charles Ray Fuller, 21, tried to cash the check at a Chase Bank, but the teller did a double take after noticing the check was for $360 billion. The check was made out to "Fulla Comp and Entertainment," the record company Fuller wanted to start, NBC 5 reported.

Police said Fuller stole the check from Paula Prettyman, the mother of Fuller's girlfriend, Andrea Greer.

"I wouldn't picture him doing something that stupid, I mean, hurting me and my family," Greer said.

Greer and her family said they don't know what Fuller was thinking.

"I didn't think he'd do this, something this dumb. I think it shocked everybody that knew him," Greer said.

Her grandmother Sharon Laird agreed.

"I said, 'Do what? Is he crazy? We were just in awe," she said.

Laird said if her family had $360 billion, "I wouldn't be sitting here. I'd be somewhere drinking margaritas."

Authorities said Fuller also had a gun and marijuana in his possession at the time of his arrest.


This Man Lived in… (No, not New York or California... but in) Fort Worth, TX.

Complete Trust

Overview of Part One:

  • Mistrusting
  • Trusting (We learn to Trust)
  • We are Entrusted

We Have Been Entrusted

  • Entrusted with God’s Word (Rom 3:2)
  • Entrusted with a measure of Faith (Rom 12:3)
  • We will not be tempted beyond our Faith (1 Cor 10:13)
  • Entrusted with the secrets of God (1 Cor 4:1)
  • Entrusted with God’s Kingdom (Matt 25:14)

Luke 6:12-16
One of those days Jesus went out to a mountainside to pray, and spent the night praying to God. When morning came, he called his disciples to him and chose twelve of them, whom he also designated apostles:

Simon (whom he named Peter), his brother Andrew, James, John, Philip, Bartholomew, Matthew, Thomas, James son of Alphaeus, Simon who was called the Zealot, Judas son of James, and Judas Iscariot, who became a traitor.

Jesus Trusted 12 Men:

  • John, Peter and Andrew Fishermen (uneducated)
  • Matthew the Tax Collector (A Robber)
  • Simon the Zealot (Assassin)
  • Saul the Pharisee (Murderer of Christians)
  • Unschooled and Ordinary men.

Facts of the 12!

  • No indication of maturity, character or obedience.
  • Broken promises (I will never leave you)
  • Major Setbacks (Peter, Judas)
  • Lacked Faith
  • Found greater faith in Gentiles (Centurion and Samaritan)
  • Three Years of teaching with no results.

This is part of the sermon given this last Sunday. The above website, when it is completed, will hopefully have mp3 files available to download and listen, or at least some audio. Please don't hold me to it, though, I am just speculating.
I am going to check out the scriptures tomorrow. Johnny Out.

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Monday, May 05, 2008

Trust and Submit

Ah... how are things. I have had some fun, some quiet times away from the computer. I used to struggle with have QTs away from the computer and now it is... easier. And that is nice.
1st Corinthians 16:12-18
Now about our brother Apollos: I strongly urged him to go to you with the brothers. He was quite unwilling to go now, but he will go when he has the opportunity.

Be on your guard; stand firm in the faith; be men of courage; be strong. Do everything in love.

You know that the household of Stephanas were the first converts in Achaia, and they have devoted themselves to the service of the saints. I urge you, brothers, to submit to such as these and to everyone who joins in the work, and labors at it. I was glad when Stephanas, Fortunatus and Achaicus arrived, because they have supplied what was lacking from you. For they refreshed my spirit and yours also. Such men deserve recognition.
I wanted to point out that everything should be done in love. EVERYTHING. So, when I go to church, it is in love. When I go to the grocery store, it is in love. When I go to work, it is in love. Now, the reality is, it doesn't feel that way. I might go to work and HATE my job. But God blessed me with the job, a source of income to support my family.

And the idea is to submit to doing things in love, such as "devoting myself to the service of the saints". Now, I have studied out what a saint is... in the Catholic world, it is a person who is in stained glass at the top of the church... and you can pray to those saints, according to Catholism. However, the Bible says nothing of the thing, so I would suggest in not doing such actions. A saint is a disciple. A saint is a follower of Christ. And I think one thing to understand is get a definition of "follower" and "devoted"... because without a true understanding of these words, you can't get a true understanding of the things in question.

Follower (noun):

  • One that imitates or copies another.
  • A servant; a subordinate.
  • A person who follows another in regard to his or her ideas or belief; disciple or adherent.
  • A person who accepts the leadership of another.

Disciple (noun):

  • Someone who believes and helps to spread the doctrine of another.
  • Teachable; easy to teach; docible.
  • Disposed to be taught; tractable; easily managed.

Devoted (adj.):

  • Zealous or ardent in attachment, loyalty, or affection.
  • Faithful, constant, loyal.
  • To give or apply (one's time, attention, or self) entirely to a particular activity, pursuit, cause, or person.

So to be devoted to following Christ and submitting myself to serve others... well, that would mean that I set myself apart and become loyal to imitating Christ. And by imitating Christ, I have to submit to whatever the Bible has to say. And should I do this, I would be serving others. I would be serving others to constantly, faithfully, and with a zeal and affection. Are you doing this? It's a tough idea, isn't it.

Well, we gave special yesterday. It was the second time that we gave special at the time specified. We also did it last year, if I am not mistaken. What I do know is that it is a great feeling to be able to give like that. I don't think I can really put down words that capture the feeling, but there is a joy and gladness in there that you just have to experience to understand. Anyway, Johnny Out.

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Sunday, May 04, 2008

Special Missions Contribution

Special Missions
Sunday, May 4th

HOPE worldwide: $45,000
  • HOPE worldwide is an international charity that spans the globe in order to provide services for the poor and needy. HOPE bases its programs on the needs of the various communities including short -term disaster relief. Members of the DFW church have had opportunities to help in the recovery efforts in New Orleans, to care for the sick in Cambodia and to serve the orphans in Eurasia.

Eurasia Missions: $150,000

  • Our special contribution supports the St. Petersburg, Russia family of churches which includes churches in the St. Petersburg area, Southern Russia, Belorussia, and the Caucasuses. Several of the churches are in Muslim areas where Christianity is against the law and the Christians share their faith at great personal risk. This year they have added five new church plantings to the family. Many of these churches are in very poor cities and the plantings would not be possible without our financial support.

Texas Missions: $10,000

  • This fund supports and encourages the smaller churches in Texas such as Amarillo and Lubbock. The members of these churches have repeatedly expressed their gratitude to the Dallas church for the love and support. Over the past several years, the Dallas church has sent financial aid and disciples to encourage and assist the Christians in these cities.

Thousand Oaks Ranch: $170,000

  • The ministry of Thousand Oaks Ranch has been a spiritual light to many over the past 14 years. Every year the camp impacts the faith of hundreds of children as more than 500 school-age children attend the camp every summer. The camp has also hosted Texas-wide singles events, family and marraige retreats and overnight leader’s meetings. This ministry would not be possible without financial support from our Special Missions contribution.

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Friday, May 02, 2008

Helpful Health Tips

I will be updating this graphic at the end of every month to track progess. The graphic is to provide accountability.

Q: Is it true that aerobic exercise for more than 45 minutes at a time can lead to inflammation and weight gain in the abdominal area?

A: This is not true — in fact, it's the opposite. Aerobic exercise for any amount of time can decrease inflammation and decrease weight gain in the abdominal area. Abdominal fat is the worst kind because it is associated with chronic inflammation and is more likely to lead to type 2 diabetes and heart disease.

All types and duration of exercise can benefit the upper body. Even walking at a moderate pace (as if you were late to work) can reduce fat storage in the abdominal area. As a matter of fact, studies have shown that people who exercise moderately all their lives do not gain as much weight as those who don't exercise and that they have lower rates of type 2 diabetes, which in turn can lead to heart disease. The message is clear — keep it moving for better health.

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Sweet Surrender

Ephesians 5:21
Submit to one another out of reverence for Christ.


This is really what the study is about. Obey one another out of a healthy fear for God. This scripture is going to be the staple scripture at the beginning from each study from now on.
Genesis 16:1-10
Now Sarai, Abram's wife, had borne him no children. But she had an Egyptian maidservant named Hagar; so she said to Abram, "The LORD has kept me from having children. Go, sleep with my maidservant; perhaps I can build a family through her."

Abram agreed to what Sarai said. So after Abram had been living in Canaan ten years, Sarai his wife took her Egyptian maidservant Hagar and gave her to her husband to be his wife. He slept with Hagar, and she conceived.

When she knew she was pregnant, she began to despise her mistress. Then Sarai said to Abram, "You are responsible for the wrong I am suffering. I put my servant in your arms, and now that she knows she is pregnant, she despises me. May the LORD judge between you and me."

"Your servant is in your hands," Abram said. "Do with her whatever you think best." Then Sarai mistreated Hagar; so she fled from her.

The angel of the LORD found Hagar near a spring in the desert; it was the spring that is beside the road to Shur. And he said, "Hagar, servant of Sarai, where have you come from, and where are you going?"

"I'm running away from my mistress Sarai," she answered.

Then the angel of the LORD told her, "Go back to your mistress and submit to her." The angel added, "I will so increase your descendants that they will be too numerous to count."



Submit: ‛ânâh (pronounced: aw-naw'):

  • The idea of looking down or browbeating; to depress literally or figuratively, transitively or intransitively (in various applications): abase self, afflict (affliction, self), answer, chasten self, deal hardly with, defile, exercise, force, gentleness, humble (self), hurt, ravish, sing, speak, submit self, weaken.
Now, this is interesting. Submit in the OT means to submit self... and humble self. "Go back to your mistress and submit to her." And these other things look like they could fit in there to... but it would just be weird for God to say "exercise her or weaken her", it just sounds weird. This is only the third day and I don't remember if I did a dictionary definition.

I looked and I haven't.

Submit (verb):
  • To give over or yield to the power or authority of another (often used reflexively).
  • To subject to some kind of treatment or influence.
  • To present for the approval, consideration, or decision of another or others.
  • To state or urge with deference; suggest or propose (usually fol. by a clause).
  • To yield oneself to the power or authority of another.
  • To allow oneself to be subjected to some kind of treatment.
  • To defer to another's judgment, opinion, decision, etc.

And when you look at this definition... it says so many things. At least a whole lot of stuff comes to mind, since I am to submit myself to God. I am to submit myself to Christ.

I will put together some thoughts on all of this... this is GREAT! Anyway, Johnny Out.

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Goals 2008: UPDATE


Spiritual Goals for 2008

1. Have consistent QTs (over 90%) for 2008
2. Pray consistently with family (again, 90%)
3. Help the church (either communion service, contribution, children's ministry... just need to serve)
4. BE AT CHURCH consistently. Do let excuses pull me down from going.

I know this is only four goals (not a perfect number, biblically speaking...) but these are goals with God in mind. I think the Lord will bless it.

So, how is the progress?

Well, technically I hit over 90% for the month of April... I am consistent with praying with my son and wife, however I would also like to pray with my wife every night. I do help with the church in two ministries... possibly more depending on how you look at things. And I am at church consistently. At least I do not let excuses pull me down. I feel really good about things right now. Johnny Out.

Thursday, May 01, 2008

Submit or Obey



Ephesians 5:15-33

Be very careful, then, how you live—not as unwise but as wise, making the most of every opportunity, because the days are evil. Therefore do not be foolish, but understand what the Lord's will is. Do not get drunk on wine, which leads to debauchery. Instead, be filled with the Spirit. Speak to one another with psalms, hymns and spiritual songs. Sing and make music in your heart to the Lord, always giving thanks to God the Father for everything, in the name of our Lord Jesus Christ.

Submit to one another out of reverence for Christ.

Wives, submit to your husbands as to the Lord. For the husband is the head of the wife as Christ is the head of the church, his body, of which he is the Savior. Now as the church submits to Christ, so also wives should submit to their husbands in everything.

Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her to make her holy, cleansing her by the washing with water through the word, and to present her to himself as a radiant church, without stain or wrinkle or any other blemish, but holy and blameless. In this same way, husbands ought to love their wives as their own bodies. He who loves his wife loves himself. After all, no one ever hated his own body, but he feeds and cares for it, just as Christ does the church— for we are members of his body. "For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and the two will become one flesh." This is a profound mystery—but I am talking about Christ and the church. However, each one of you also must love his wife as he loves himself, and the wife must respect her husband.

OK, so the word submit in this passage (all of them) happens to be the same submit in the passage in James from yesterday's study. So, verse 21 can look something like this: OBEY one another out of fear for God. Now, just as the original translation of the NIV above and the JRV in this paragraph, this can be taken out of context and run with in such a way that there is... well, let's just put it this way, you can read a scripture and respond with a humble heart and with a prideful heart. The later can manipulate it to do the evil things they want to do, whereas the humble one will use it to correct his life. Which one am I? Well, I have used this passage to do harm and to do good. And things always tend to be so much better when I do the later. You see, in verse 22, you can use that verse to man-handle your wife. I am not talking about abuse, but I can see how it can be turned around into that. But, it can be used to "stiffle" the voice of the woman. It would look something like, "You better submit!" and you can certainly expound on it from there... but verse 21 says to submit to each other. So, the guy need s to submit, as well. Are we submitting to our spouse, because we love them? How about loving God? Would our spouse say that we love God by our actions of how we treat our spouse? Tough questions.

Well, I'm over 72%... Now, I should start eyeballing 73%. Johnny Out.

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