Saturday, February 28, 2009

A Study on Love: Part LII

This is the last "love study" for the month... at least directly. I am sure it will be hard to continue the next ten months and not at least talk about love once. Anyway, I was pretty successful this month, achieving over 90%... yeah!
Philippians 4:4-9
Rejoice in the Lord always. I will say it again: Rejoice! Let your gentleness be evident to all. The Lord is near. Do not be anxious about anything, but in every situation, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God. And the peace of God, which transcends all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus.

Finally, brothers and sisters, whatever is true, whatever is noble, whatever is right, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is admirable—if anything is excellent or praiseworthy—think about such things. Whatever you have learned or received or heard from me, or seen in me—put it into practice. And the God of peace will be with you.

-I think this is pretty key to expressing love. The frame of mind has to be thinking about whatever is lovely, true, noble, pure, admirable and right. Whatever is right... do that and it will be expressing love. And loveliness is Godliness, right? AMEN.

Friday, February 27, 2009

A Study on Love: Part LI

A Good Samaritan who sustained broken bones after pushing three people out of the way of a oncoming pickup has been cited for jaywalking, the Rocky Mountain News reports.

Bus driver Jim Moffett, 58, and one of his passengers decided to help two elderly women who had gotten off the bus on a Denver street in a light snowstorm, the newspaper says.

Moffett's stepson, Ken McDonald, tells the paper that the four had almost made it across the street when the impatient driver of a pickup passed in a left-hand turn lane and hit them.

"He plowed right into my stepdad," McDonald says. "But not before (my stepdad) pushed the old ladies and the other guy out of the way."

Moffett was hospitalized with bleeding in the brain, broken bones in his face, a dislocated shoulder, a broken wrist and possible ruptured spleen and liver, the News writes.

He also got a ticket for jaywalking.

McDonald says the citation should be dropped, but the newspaper quotes Ryan Sullivan, of the State Patrol, as saying that while Moffett's "intentions were good," jaywalking caused the accident.

The driver of the pickup was ticketed for careless driving causing injury.
That guy, in an effort to help someone else, may just cost him his life. And the fine for jaywalking, by the way, is $22 dollars. Yes, he did jaywalk. I'm not sure he deserves a fine for his effort to help others, but then again the law is the law. And if it were me, I would have jaywalked, too.

I think maybe there should be a donation line or a way to donate money, to help this guy with his medical bills and to also pay for the silly little fine. He's just a bus driver so the chances of him having the money to cover his bills is probably limited at best.

I talked to Mr. Moffett, and his wishes were not just to have something for him, but he was more concerned about the older ladies and the other gentleman. He's at St. Anthony Central Hospital in Denver, which is where I called and talked to him. I am hoping that I will be able to have a way to send money through PayPal so they can be able to help pay on some of their hospital bills.
I just wanted to share a couple of funnies. The top one deals with telling a lie and the one below is about lust. Obviously, the guy talking doesn't get it.
Matthew 25:31-46
"When the Son of Man comes in his glory, and all the angels with him, he will sit on his throne in heavenly glory. All the nations will be gathered before him, and he will separate the people one from another as a shepherd separates the sheep from the goats. He will put the sheep on his right and the goats on his left.

"Then the King will say to those on his right, 'Come, you who are blessed by my Father; take your inheritance, the kingdom prepared for you since the creation of the world. For I was hungry and you gave me something to eat, I was thirsty and you gave me something to drink, I was a stranger and you invited me in, I needed clothes and you clothed me, I was sick and you looked after me, I was in prison and you came to visit me.'

"Then the righteous will answer him, 'Lord, when did we see you hungry and feed you, or thirsty and give you something to drink? When did we see you a stranger and invite you in, or needing clothes and clothe you? When did we see you sick or in prison and go to visit you?'

"The King will reply, 'I tell you the truth, whatever you did for one of the least of these brothers of mine, you did for me.'

"Then he will say to those on his left, 'Depart from me, you who are cursed, into the eternal fire prepared for the devil and his angels. For I was hungry and you gave me nothing to eat, I was thirsty and you gave me nothing to drink, I was a stranger and you did not invite me in, I needed clothes and you did not clothe me, I was sick and in prison and you did not look after me.'

"They also will answer, 'Lord, when did we see you hungry or thirsty or a stranger or needing clothes or sick or in prison, and did not help you?'

"He will reply, 'I tell you the truth, whatever you did not do for one of the least of these, you did not do for me.'

"Then they will go away to eternal punishment, but the righteous to eternal life."

-Now the reason I share this story instead of the "good samaritan" story is so that I can look at the sheep and the goats. I will have to say, I do not know Jim Moffett. I have talked to him and I have read about him, but I haven't seen him face to face or given the guy a hug or anything like that.

What I like about Jim is his actions. In James, it is written that faith without deeds is dead. And to have deeds that go with your faith, will just let your deeds speak for themselves. I do not know what church Jim goes to, whether it be a Catholic church or a Church of Christ or a Bible church or whatever, but what I do know is that he has a heart for others, a heart for complete strangers. And God will bless him. Or at least I pray that he does. The sheep in the above story helped others because they had love. The goats, well they didn't. They were waiting to be asked to help instead of helping out where there were needs.

Jim is a sheep. He helped out where he saw a need. And to that, I say an AMEN. Helping someone is an expression of love. Even helping a complete stranger. Not helping, well that makes you a goat and it is the same as hurting someone, essentially. Johnny Out.
This is 26 of 27... the typing feature on my photoshop decided to not work... trying to fix it. Also, yesterday's post didn't come through, in fact it got deleted. So, uh... that was weird.

Wednesday, February 25, 2009

A Study on Love: Part L

Ephesians 4:2-3

Be completely humble and gentle; be patient, bearing with one another in love. Make every effort to keep the unity of the Spirit through the bond of peace.

-John Lusk talked about the "five stones" at our marriage retreat. Here's a list of the "stones":
  • Humility
  • Gentleness
  • Patience
  • Bearability
  • Love

I do not know if "bearability" is really a word, but work with me here. Actually, it is not really a word, but I have to be able to bear with others in love. In fact, I have to bear out with others. I have to be humble to the very end. I have to be patient to the end. If I have those qualities, I will have a great marriage. I will have a great walk with God. I will be what God has called me to be. And if I am what God calls to be, then I will be expressing qualities of love everywhere I go, and that's not a bad thing. Johnny Out.

OK, that is supposed to say 24 of 25 this month.

Wednesday's Workout

I pretty much have fallen off the wagon. My son went to the hospital a week ago and I really haven't done much of anything since. Monday evening, I kicked a child's car seat and did a number on my leg, however today I will get back on the wagon, irregardless of how I feel. I am healthy enough to workout, just not 100% pain free. I think right now it is not so much of how much I do, it is simply doing something.

Tuesday, February 24, 2009

A Study on Love: Part XLIX

Romans 12:3-21
For by the grace given me I say to every one of you: Do not think of yourself more highly than you ought, but rather think of yourself with sober judgment, in accordance with the measure of faith God has given you. Just as each of us has one body with many members, and these members do not all have the same function, so in Christ we who are many form one body, and each member belongs to all the others. We have different gifts, according to the grace given us. If a man's gift is prophesying, let him use it in proportion to his faith. If it is serving, let him serve; if it is teaching, let him teach; if it is encouraging, let him encourage; if it is contributing to the needs of others, let him give generously; if it is leadership, let him govern diligently; if it is showing mercy, let him do it cheerfully.

Love must be sincere. Hate what is evil; cling to what is good. Be devoted to one another in brotherly love. Honor one another above yourselves. Never be lacking in zeal, but keep your spiritual fervor, serving the Lord. Be joyful in hope, patient in affliction, faithful in prayer. Share with God's people who are in need. Practice hospitality.

Bless those who persecute you; bless and do not curse. Rejoice with those who rejoice; mourn with those who mourn. Live in harmony with one another. Do not be proud, but be willing to associate with people of low position. Do not be conceited.

Do not repay anyone evil for evil. Be careful to do what is right in the eyes of everybody. If it is possible, as far as it depends on you, live at peace with everyone. Do not take revenge, my friends, but leave room for God's wrath, for it is written: "It is mine to avenge; I will repay," says the Lord. On the contrary: "If your enemy is hungry, feed him; if he is thirsty, give him something to drink. In doing this, you will heap burning coals on his head." Do not be overcome by evil, but overcome evil with good.

-There is a job for me to do. I mean, everybody has a gift. Some people can speak different languages. Others have a gift to be able to organize things. Others have a gift of being an entertainer. And still others have artistic ability. My gift is in entertaining and with artistic ability. Some people have the ability to be able to speak well. I am not terribly sure I fall into that catagory. Others have an ability to lead a group. Others have an ability to encourage people. And I think everyone has a gift to encourage others. It is there, you just have to tap into it. And maybe all of these gifts are there, they just need to be tapped into in a better, more effective way. And using these gifts, it is an expression of love. And expressing that love, it has to be sincere. Expressing love has to have humility to it, because if it doesn't, it's pretty worthless. And by worthless, I mean not effective. Telling someone I love you and doing nothing to express that love really falls short. Telling someone I love you and doing something, whether it be giving a gift, serving that person, or whatever, and having a great heart about it, that speaks volumes of that love. Johnny Out.

Monday, February 23, 2009

A Study on Love: Part XLVIII

1st Corinthians 3:23
...you are of Christ, and Christ is of God.

Matthew 5:48
Be perfect, therefore, as your heavenly Father is perfect.

1st John 4:8
Whoever does not love does not know God, because God is love.

1st Corinthians 13:1-8a
If I speak in the tongues of men and of angels, but have not love, I am only a resounding gong or a clanging cymbal. If I have the gift of prophecy and can fathom all mysteries and all knowledge, and if I have a faith that can move mountains, but have not love, I am nothing. If I give all I possess to the poor and surrender my body to the flames, but have not love, I gain nothing.

Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.

Love never fails.

-Now, I am supposed to be perfect as God is perfect. I am to like Christ who is like God, so therefore I should be like God. And God is love. If I am to be like Christ, who is God, and God is love, the I should be love. So what that means is that I need to place my name in the place of the word love... Johnny is patient, Johnny is kind. He does not envy, he does not boast, he is not proud. He is not rude, he is not self-seeking, he is not easily angered, he keeps no record of wrongs. Johnny does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. He always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres. Johnny never fails.

That is a humbling exercise. I mean, how much of that is true? I see bursts of those things, but a consistent yes, well, I don't think I can say that about any of those things. An expression of love is an expression of Godliness. This is truly convicting. Johnny Out.

Sunday, February 22, 2009

A Study on Love: Part XLVII

Luke 7:36-38, 44-47
Now one of the Pharisees invited Jesus to have dinner with him, so he went to the Pharisee's house and reclined at the table. When a woman who had lived a sinful life in that town learned that Jesus was eating at the Pharisee's house, she brought an alabaster jar of perfume, and as she stood behind him at his feet weeping, she began to wet his feet with her tears. Then she wiped them with her hair, kissed them and poured perfume on them.

Then he turned toward the woman and said to Simon, "Do you see this woman? I came into your house. You did not give me any water for my feet, but she wet my feet with her tears and wiped them with her hair. You did not give me a kiss, but this woman, from the time I entered, has not stopped kissing my feet. You did not put oil on my head, but she has poured perfume on my feet. Therefore, I tell you, her many sins have been forgiven—for she loved much. But he who has been forgiven little loves little."

-Now, this is an awesome story in the Bible. In fact, it is one of my most favorite stories in the Bible. This story shows the love I should have for God. It shows that I should be down on my hands and knees, doing everything I have within my being, serving my Lord. This woman broke a jar of perfume worth a years wages. A YEARS WAGES. Let's put that into perspective:
  • A Farm Manager Made in 2002: $43,740
  • Scott Kazmir (Tampa Bay Rays) in 2008: $3,785,000
  • Melky Cabrera (NY Yankees) in 2008: $461,200
  • Josh Hamilton (Texas Rangers) in 2008: $396,830
  • Michael Young (Texas Rangers) in 2008: $6,174,974
  • Average Teacher Salary (Texas) in 2008-09: $38,857
  • Brandon Bass (Dallas Mavericks) in 2009: $826,269
  • Mike Modano (Dallas Stars) in 2009: $4,250,000
  • DeMarcus Ware (Dallas Cowboys) in 2008: $2,121,240
  • Minimum Wage at 40 Hour Weeks (Year): $13,624

In case you are not aware of what this bottle of perfume was worth in those times compared to today's time, the alabaster bottle and perfume totalled to roughly $300 dollars. In Russia, an average salary per year is roughly $545 dollars. So... would you break the bottle and pour a years worth of wages at your Lord's feet? Would you do it? Let's say you're Scott Kazmir, would you pour over 3 million dollars of anything on your Lord's feet? And if not, why not? Keep in mind that Judas was there disputing the act. I mean, this is a years worth of money being poured out with no way to get any physical return on what you are doing. I would have to say that I would have a hard time doing it. I agree with Jesus in saying that it is a beautiful thing. I just don't know if my faith would be there, to do something as wonderful as what she did.

Giving is an expression of love. Sacrificing is an expression of love. This woman did both. She gave up a year's worth of wages, sacrificed what she had and gave it to Christ. Johnny Out.

Saturday, February 21, 2009

A Study on Love: Part XLVI

Matthew 25:1-13
"At that time the kingdom of heaven will be like ten virgins who took their lamps and went out to meet the bridegroom. Five of them were foolish and five were wise. The foolish ones took their lamps but did not take any oil with them. The wise, however, took oil in jars along with their lamps. The bridegroom was a long time in coming, and they all became drowsy and fell asleep.

"At midnight the cry rang out: 'Here's the bridegroom! Come out to meet him!'

"Then all the virgins woke up and trimmed their lamps. The foolish ones said to the wise, 'Give us some of your oil; our lamps are going out.'

"'No,' they replied, 'there may not be enough for both us and you. Instead, go to those who sell oil and buy some for yourselves.'

"But while they were on their way to buy the oil, the bridegroom arrived. The virgins who were ready went in with him to the wedding banquet. And the door was shut.

"Later the others also came. 'Sir! Sir!' they said. 'Open the door for us!'

"But he replied, 'I tell you the truth, I don't know you.'

"Therefore keep watch, because you do not know the day or the hour."

-Now, you again might ask, "what does this passage have anything to do with love?" And that would be a good question. Here are five virgins not sharing with the other five virgins. And I am teaching my son to share, which is a good thing. Here's a situation of five women who are prepared. They have kept themselves pure, they have done everything... except prepare. They didn't have enough oil. It wasn't like they didn't know this was going to happen, because they did know. And if I am one of those ladies, and I have enough oil, do I share it with someone who doesn't? This is a metaphor. The oil is like my salvation. Am I prepared? Do I have enough to get me to the end? Am I willing to take a chance of loosing my salvation to help someone else? That's a legitimate question. It is good to be outward focused. And it is not like the five virgins with oil didn't offer a solution, because they did. Sometimes loving someone is doing the harder thing, which is allowing someone to do the work themselves. I am not saying that we shouldn't be outward focused. I am saying that sometimes the better thing to do in a situation with someone is to take a step back, and let that person see the situation they have put themself in. And doing the harder thing, letting someone see their foolishness, is an expression of love. It is the expression most forgotten and it is the expression most appreciated.

Friday, February 20, 2009

A Study on Love: Part XLV

Mack ate up some coins on Wednesday, so I didn't get to do the workout I wanted. So, I am doing that workout today. Rock on.Mark 7:14-23
Again Jesus called the crowd to him and said, "Listen to me, everyone, and understand this. Nothing outside a man can make him 'unclean' by going into him. Rather, it is what comes out of a man that makes him 'unclean.' "

After he had left the crowd and entered the house, his disciples asked him about this parable. "Are you so dull?" he asked. "Don't you see that nothing that enters a man from the outside can make him 'unclean'? For it doesn't go into his heart but into his stomach, and then out of his body." (In saying this, Jesus declared all foods "clean.")

He went on: "What comes out of a man is what makes him 'unclean.' For from within, out of men's hearts, come evil thoughts, sexual immorality, theft, murder, adultery, greed, malice, deceit, lewdness, envy, slander, arrogance and folly. All these evils come from inside and make a man 'unclean.' "

-What does this have to do with love? Well, it is rather simple. What is the opposite of sexual immortality? Purity. What is the opposite of evil thoughts? Godly thoughts. Opposite of deceit? Honesty. These things are the heavenly things. These things are the things that become expressions of love. That's important, since the evil things listed about are not expressions of love. And if they are not expressions of love, then they become expressions of a self-centered personality. The opposite of love, which is an outward focus, is selfishness, which is an inward focus. Johnny Out.

Thursday, February 19, 2009

A Study on Love: Part XLIV

Today, I just will do some cardio. I have learned that I have lost an inch on my waist. That encourages me to continue to workout, even though I am not dropping the pounds, I am still getting results.
Proverbs 14:29
A patient man has great understanding, but a quick-tempered man displays folly.

Proverbs 15:18,20
A hot-tempered man stirs up dissension, but a patient man calms a quarrel. A wise son brings joy to his father, but a foolish man despises his mother.

Proverbs 16:28,32
A perverse man stirs up dissension, and a gossip separates close friends. Better a patient man than a warrior, a man who controls his temper than one who takes a city.

-Patience is an expression of love. God is patient. I lack patience. I know I do. I can be very hasty and very ill-tempered. I am grown in this area, but I still have a long way to go. Just a nugget for today.

Wednesday, February 18, 2009

A Study on Love: Part XLIII

I did only three circuits yesterday. Today, my goal is to complete the whole workout. Tough, but that is what I aim to do. I still haven't lost any weight, but I think consistency will change that. Pray for me to lose weight. I really need to shed these pounds and there have been many times where I have just been so discouraged that it brings me close to tears.
Colossians 3:1-17
Since, then, you have been raised with Christ, set your hearts on things above, where Christ is seated at the right hand of God. Set your minds on things above, not on earthly things. For you died, and your life is now hidden with Christ in God. When Christ, who is your life, appears, then you also will appear with him in glory.

Put to death, therefore, whatever belongs to your earthly nature: sexual immorality, impurity, lust, evil desires and greed, which is idolatry. Because of these, the wrath of God is coming. You used to walk in these ways, in the life you once lived. But now you must rid yourselves of all such things as these: anger, rage, malice, slander, and filthy language from your lips. Do not lie to each other, since you have taken off your old self with its practices and have put on the new self, which is being renewed in knowledge in the image of its Creator. Here there is no Greek or Jew, circumcised or uncircumcised, barbarian, Scythian, slave or free, but Christ is all, and is in all.

Therefore, as God's chosen people, holy and dearly loved, clothe yourselves with compassion, kindness, humility, gentleness and patience. Bear with each other and forgive whatever grievances you may have against one another. Forgive as the Lord forgave you. And over all these virtues put on love, which binds them all together in perfect unity.

Let the peace of Christ rule in your hearts, since as members of one body you were called to peace. And be thankful. Let the word of Christ dwell in you richly as you teach and admonish one another with all wisdom, and as you sing psalms, hymns and spiritual songs with gratitude in your hearts to God. And whatever you do, whether in word or deed, do it all in the name of the Lord Jesus, giving thanks to God the Father through him.

-It is good to know what love is not to understand what love is. Love is not immorality, impurity, lust, evil desires and greed, which is idolatry, anger, rage, malice, slander, filthy language, or lying. Love is compassion, kindness, humility, gentleness, forgiveness and patience. I like this passage: forgive as God forgave you. God forgives me completely. He doesn't hold on to anything. And that is how I should forgive. Forgiveness is an expression of love. The word forgive comes up in 63 verses in the NIV Bible. And 17 in the first four books of the NT. It is our sinful nature to not forgive. We want to hold grudges against others who hurt us. It just shouldn't happen like that. Love as God has loved us. Forgive as God forgives us. Trust as God trusts us. Hope as God hopes for us. Be patient with others as God is patient with us. Tough things to think about, seriously, but I think this is the goal that God has for me and you. Johnny Out.

Tuesday, February 17, 2009

A Study on Love: Part XLII

I didn't workout at all yesterday. So, tonight I will be doing Monday's workout. Why not, right?

Psalm 31
In you, O LORD, I have taken refuge; let me never be put to shame; deliver me in your righteousness. Turn your ear to me, come quickly to my rescue; be my rock of refuge, a strong fortress to save me. Since you are my rock and my fortress, for the sake of your name lead and guide me. Free me from the trap that is set for me, for you are my refuge. Into your hands I commit my spirit; redeem me, O LORD, the God of truth. I hate those who cling to worthless idols; I trust in the LORD. I will be glad and rejoice in your love, for you saw my affliction and knew the anguish of my soul. You have not handed me over to the enemy but have set my feet in a spacious place. Be merciful to me, O LORD, for I am in distress; my eyes grow weak with sorrow, my soul and my body with grief. My life is consumed by anguish and my years by groaning; my strength fails because of my affliction, and my bones grow weak. Because of all my enemies, I am the utter contempt of my neighbors; I am a dread to my friends— those who see me on the street flee from me. I am forgotten by them as though I were dead; I have become like broken pottery. For I hear the slander of many; there is terror on every side; they conspire against me and plot to take my life. But I trust in you, O LORD; I say, "You are my God." My times are in your hands; deliver me from my enemies and from those who pursue me. Let your face shine on your servant; save me in your unfailing love. Let me not be put to shame, O LORD, for I have cried out to you; but let the wicked be put to shame and lie silent in the grave. Let their lying lips be silenced, for with pride and contempt they speak arrogantly against the righteous. How great is your goodness, which you have stored up for those who fear you, which you bestow in the sight of men on those who take refuge in you. In the shelter of your presence you hide them from the intrigues of men; in your dwelling you keep them safe from accusing tongues. Praise be to the LORD, for he showed his wonderful love to me when I was in a besieged city. In my alarm I said, "I am cut off from your sight!" Yet you heard my cry for mercy when I called to you for help. Love the LORD, all his saints! The LORD preserves the faithful, but the proud he pays back in full. Be strong and take heart, all you who hope in the LORD.

-Trust is an expression of love. Trust is a reliance on the integrity, strength, ability, and surety of a person or thing. Trust is having confidence in someone or something. If you love someone, you have a level of trust in that person. It could range from small all the way to complete and total trust. I have a three, almost four, year old son and I trust him to a certain amount. I can't trust him to do certain things, because that would just be crazy. But the things I ask him to do, I put trust in him to do those things, like pick up his toys. And roughly half the time, I have to chastize him due to him not doing the task trusted to him, but the fact is that I do trust him repeatedly to do these certain tasks. I love my son. I trust my co-workers. Probably not as much as I should, but I do trust them. I love them. Not on the same level as, say, my wife, but I do love them. They are a great bunch of people. Trust is an expression of love that I do not think we tap into, or even realize, for that matter. I think the first step to put trust in God and it will become easier to trust others. Johnny Out.

Monday, February 16, 2009

A Study on Love: Part XLI

The weigh in wasn't good. I was up 3 pounds from 3 weeks ago and up one pound overall. Something has to give. I do not know what I am doing wrong, so I do not know what to change. I do need to stay consistent in working out. Here's my workout for Monday:
Matthew 6:16-18
"When you fast, do not look somber as the hypocrites do, for they disfigure their faces to show men they are fasting. I tell you the truth, they have received their reward in full. But when you fast, put oil on your head and wash your face, so that it will not be obvious to men that you are fasting, but only to your Father, who is unseen; and your Father, who sees what is done in secret, will reward you."

-This scripture talks about two expressions of love. First, there is fasting. To fast for someone, as I have learned, is an expression of love for another person. Telling the truth is also an expression of love. In 1st Corinthians 13 it says that "love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth." Loving someone is telling them the truth.

Telling someone the truth is a hard lesson to be grasped for me. I find it easy to lie to someone when a situation is difficult. I have make a major headway in telling the truth all the time, but I am not perfect in this. Telling the truth feels like an inconvenience to me. It feels easier to simply lie and not have to deal with repercussions. I do not know if it makes sense or not... but that is how I feel about the whole thing. It is worth it, telling the truth. It is good to tell the truth, no matter how hard it may be. It is one of the things that gets you to heaven to be with God. And anything that accomplishes that is definitely worth it. Johnny Out.


Sunday, February 15, 2009

A Study on Love: Part XL

Exodus 20:17

"You shall not covet your neighbor's house. You shall not covet your neighbor's wife, or his manservant or maidservant, his ox or donkey, or anything that belongs to your neighbor."

Deuteronomy 5:21
"You shall not covet your neighbor's wife. You shall not set your desire on your neighbor's house or land, his manservant or maidservant, his ox or donkey, or anything that belongs to your neighbor."

James 4:1-3
What causes fights and quarrels among you? Don't they come from your desires that battle within you? You want something but don't get it. You kill and covet, but you cannot have what you want. You quarrel and fight. You do not have, because you do not ask God. When you ask, you do not receive, because you ask with wrong motives, that you may spend what you get on your pleasures.
Coveting is not loving.

Covet (verb):
  • To desire wrongfully, inordinately, or without due regard for the rights of others.
  • To feel immoderate desire for that which is another's.
  • To long for inordinately or unlawfully; to hanker after (something forbidden).
  • Wish, long, or crave for (something, especially the property of another person).

1st Corinthians 12:27-31
Now you are the body of Christ, and each one of you is a part of it. And God has placed in the church first of all apostles, second prophets, third teachers, then miracles, then gifts of healing, of helping, of guidance, and of different kinds of tongues. Are all apostles? Are all prophets? Are all teachers? Do all work miracles? Do all have gifts of healing? Do all speak in tongues? Do all interpret? Now eagerly desire the greater gifts.

-Eagerly desire the greater gifts... covet the greater gifts. Hunger for doing the better things that God has planned for you. So long as you have love, then everything is good. Without love, the gifts are useless. That's what the Bible says... Johnny Out.

Saturday, February 14, 2009

A Study on Love: Part XXXIX

Esther 4:12-17

When Esther's words were reported to Mordecai, he sent back this answer: "Do not think that because you are in the king's house you alone of all the Jews will escape. For if you remain silent at this time, relief and deliverance for the Jews will arise from another place, but you and your father's family will perish. And who knows but that you have come to royal position for such a time as this?"

Then Esther sent this reply to Mordecai: "Go, gather together all the Jews who are in Susa, and fast for me. Do not eat or drink for three days, night or day. I and my maids will fast as you do. When this is done, I will go to the king, even though it is against the law. And if I perish, I perish."

So Mordecai went away and carried out all of Esther's instructions.

-I found it interesting that Esther requested that Mordecai fast for her. It was a way to say "pray for me," because when you fast, you pray more. And she fasted. It was essentially a fast for the Jewish nation, but the fasting for Esther was more so a fast for her to make the righteous decision. It was a fast for God to be with here in this time. And when you pray for someone, you are loving them. If you fast for someone, you are praying for them. So, fasting for someone is indeed an expression of love toward that person. And the Bible says that "love never fails." God is love. God never fails. Amen. Johnny Out.

Friday, February 13, 2009

A Study on Love: Part XXXVIII

Go Ahead and Quit Smoking! Listen, I have vices just like everybody else, but smoking is something you are NEVER going to be able to keep up alongside an active fitness regimen. If you're a heavy smoker who has ever tried to do an intense cardio session, you know what I'm talking about.

But the risks of smoking go a lot further than a little trouble on the treadmill. According to the American Cancer Society, 29 percent of all cancer deaths are due to lung cancer — that's more people than of colon, breast, and prostate cancers combined. My life has been greatly impacted by this disease — I lost three grandparents to lung cancer. For this reason, I want to do anything I can to educate people about how they can reduce their cancer risk and improve their overall health — so they can enjoy as many precious years with their family and loved ones as possible.

That's not to say it's easy to quit smoking; few things are easy that really make a difference in our health. But the American Cancer Society has thought of that too; they have Quitline, a toll-free confidential counseling service you can call for support anytime you need it. So no excuses! The sooner you quit, the greater the benefit. It's that simple. (from Jillian Michaels daily emails)

-I did my cardio workout yesterday, burning an estimated 380 calories doing so. I also peaked out at 3.9 miles an hour, and for a guy who has had his hip replaced, that's pretty impresive. Or at least I think so, and that is what really matters when it comes to working out. I am hoping that in a few more weeks, I will cross over the four mile mark on a consistent basis. I haven't hit the four mile an hour mark yet since my surgery, but I know it is coming and I am a little excited about it.

Since I didn't do the muscle building yesterday, I move it to today. Today is "Last Chance Workout" before tomorrow's weigh in. According to my scale at home, I haven't lost but two pounds. I'm bummed to the hilt about that... It's OK though, since I can see and feel the results. Hopefully the scale will be merciful tomorrow morning.

2nd Samuel 12:1-25
The LORD sent Nathan to David. When he came to him, he said, "There were two men in a certain town, one rich and the other poor. The rich man had a very large number of sheep and cattle, but the poor man had nothing except one little ewe lamb he had bought. He raised it, and it grew up with him and his children. It shared his food, drank from his cup and even slept in his arms. It was like a daughter to him.

"Now a traveler came to the rich man, but the rich man refrained from taking one of his own sheep or cattle to prepare a meal for the traveler who had come to him. Instead, he took the ewe lamb that belonged to the poor man and prepared it for the one who had come to him."

David burned with anger against the man and said to Nathan, "As surely as the LORD lives, the man who did this deserves to die! He must pay for that lamb four times over, because he did such a thing and had no pity."

Then Nathan said to David, "You are the man! This is what the LORD, the God of Israel, says: 'I anointed you king over Israel, and I delivered you from the hand of Saul. I gave your master's house to you, and your master's wives into your arms. I gave you the house of Israel and Judah. And if all this had been too little, I would have given you even more. Why did you despise the word of the LORD by doing what is evil in his eyes? You struck down Uriah the Hittite with the sword and took his wife to be your own. You killed him with the sword of the Ammonites. Now, therefore, the sword will never depart from your house, because you despised me and took the wife of Uriah the Hittite to be your own.'

"This is what the LORD says: 'Out of your own household I am going to bring calamity upon you. Before your very eyes I will take your wives and give them to one who is close to you, and he will lie with your wives in broad daylight. You did it in secret, but I will do this thing in broad daylight before all Israel.' "

Then David said to Nathan, "I have sinned against the LORD." Nathan replied, "The LORD has taken away your sin. You are not going to die. But because by doing this you have made the enemies of the LORD show utter contempt, the son born to you will die."

After Nathan had gone home, the LORD struck the child that Uriah's wife had borne to David, and he became ill. David pleaded with God for the child. He fasted and went into his house and spent the nights lying on the ground. The elders of his household stood beside him to get him up from the ground, but he refused, and he would not eat any food with them.

On the seventh day the child died. David's servants were afraid to tell him that the child was dead, for they thought, "While the child was still living, we spoke to David but he would not listen to us. How can we tell him the child is dead? He may do something desperate."

David noticed that his servants were whispering among themselves and he realized the child was dead. "Is the child dead?" he asked. "Yes," they replied, "he is dead."

Then David got up from the ground. After he had washed, put on lotions and changed his clothes, he went into the house of the LORD and worshiped. Then he went to his own house, and at his request they served him food, and he ate.

His servants asked him, "Why are you acting this way? While the child was alive, you fasted and wept, but now that the child is dead, you get up and eat!"

He answered, "While the child was still alive, I fasted and wept. I thought, 'Who knows? The LORD may be gracious to me and let the child live.' But now that he is dead, why should I fast? Can I bring him back again? I will go to him, but he will not return to me."

Then David comforted his wife Bathsheba, and he went to her and lay with her. She gave birth to a son, and they named him Solomon. The LORD loved him; and because the LORD loved him, he sent word through Nathan the prophet to name him Jedidiah.

-Fasting is an expression of love. Weeping is an expression, too, but so is fasting. Have you loved someone so much that you fast for them? If you have ever read the book "Where the Red Fern Grows", you know how the story ends. If you haven't read the book and are interested in reading it, you should note that there is a spoiler coming here, so beware. Still, there are these two dogs, one dies and the other dog will not eat. It is like the dog is fasting for it's missing companion, a lifelong friendship with his friend has been severed by death. And the dog stops eating, just like a fast. It, too, dies, but the expression of love that the one dog had for another went down to the grave.

So, fasting can come in many forms. I heard of a brother who stoped drinking soda to encourage a friend. People have fasted from chocolate, drinks, meat, desserts, and all sorts of things to show an expression of love and prayer for another person. Fasting... think about it. Johnny Out.

Thursday, February 12, 2009

A Study on Love: Part XXXVII

I hope you like the new logo. My wife did this one, with me adding the word bubble and text. Outside of that, it was all her. Anyway, if you want to guess the famous couple, go ahead and try. My workout today will consist of some cardio if I am lucky and the workout below. Being that it is a Thursday, it is tough to say if I will be able to get into the gym and workout. But I can at least do the workout below at home.

Get Killer Abs: Everybody wants defined abs. Good thing there are so many different abdominal exercises to choose from — you'll never get bored as you work your way toward washboard abs!

Here are three versions of the plank, a move that works the lower back, chest, and shoulders in addition to the rectus abdominis.

Basic Plank (beginner): Start in a push-up position, but keep your hands directly under your shoulders instead of outside your chest. Legs are extended straight behind you, with feet together. You are balancing on your palms and the balls of your feet. Hold this position for as long as you can, working your way up to 1 minute. It's a lot harder than it sounds!

Plank Twists (intermediate): Start in plank position. Maintaining this position, exhale and rotate your torso by bringing your right knee in toward your left armpit. Return to the starting position, then repeat, bringing the left knee toward the right armpit. Plank twists work not only the rectus abdominis but also the internal obliques.

Extended Plank (advanced): Start in a basic plank position, but instead of placing your hands under your shoulders, bring your hands together and place them on the floor in front of you (about 3 inches in front of your head). This variation places much greater emphasis and intensity on the rectus abdominis because you're not able to use your arms as pillars to support your body weight.
John 11:32-44
When Mary reached the place where Jesus was and saw him, she fell at his feet and said, "Lord, if you had been here, my brother would not have died."

When Jesus saw her weeping, and the Jews who had come along with her also weeping, he was deeply moved in spirit and troubled. "Where have you laid him?" he asked. "Come and see, Lord," they replied.

Jesus wept.

Then the Jews said, "See how he loved him!"

But some of them said, "Could not he who opened the eyes of the blind man have kept this man from dying?"

Jesus, once more deeply moved, came to the tomb. It was a cave with a stone laid across the entrance. "Take away the stone," he said. "But, Lord," said Martha, the sister of the dead man, "by this time there is a bad odor, for he has been there four days."

Then Jesus said, "Did I not tell you that if you believed, you would see the glory of God?"

So they took away the stone. Then Jesus looked up and said, "Father, I thank you that you have heard me. I knew that you always hear me, but I said this for the benefit of the people standing here, that they may believe that you sent me."

When he had said this, Jesus called in a loud voice, "Lazarus, come out!" The dead man came out, his hands and feet wrapped with strips of linen, and a cloth around his face. Jesus said to them, "Take off the grave clothes and let him go."

-I love this passage. Not because of the easiest memory verse (that would be John 11:35 "Jesus wept."), but because it really shows how much Jesus loves me. Jesus wept when he didn't have to weep. He wept because he loved. And in 1st John 4:8 it says that God is love. It also says it in verse 16. If you live in love, you live in God and God lives in you. Jesus was the full expression of love. He died for me. He died because he loves me. I have to die for others to express my love. And I don't necessarily mean a physical death, although that could be the ultimate expression of my love for others. No, I mean a metaphorical death. Dieing to self to help others is the death I am talking about and I really do not do it enough. That is a strong expression of love is serving others, putting everyone else's needs before my own. It's not easy. It really isn't all that attractive, either. But that is the calling. Johnny Out.

Wednesday, February 11, 2009

A Study on Love: Part XXXVI

Today, I am only going to have two workouts. Yesterday, I did accomplish three workouts. I have that feeling of "I lost weight" from yesterday's efforts. I Hope the scale will agree on Saturday. Today, I am going to do an hour of cardio in the morning and in the afternoon, I will do the workout below.
Luke 19:41-44
As he approached Jerusalem and saw the city, he wept over it and said, "If you, even you, had only known on this day what would bring you peace—but now it is hidden from your eyes. The days will come upon you when your enemies will build an embankment against you and encircle you and hem you in on every side. They will dash you to the ground, you and the children within your walls. They will not leave one stone on another, because you did not recognize the time of God's coming to you."

-How about this? Jesus wept over seeing Jerusalem. Why? Why cry over looking at a city? I believe Jesus was crying over the lost. He wanted to badly for them to repent. And here he is, going into the city to celebrate the Passover, knowing good and well that he would die because of them. And still he cries. Like I said yesterday, crying isn't a sign of weekness as it is a sign of love. I also believe that Jesus was sad for what would become of this city. I think it was really a mixture of emotions, all of them being led by love. I'll admit, I have cried over others who would not come to Jesus. It is a complex, yet so simple an emotion. When was the last time you wept because of the lost?

Really, that is a tough question. Weeping or crying just isn't something guys do. Jesus did it a good deal. And I believe he did it way more than the Bible tells us. I believe that Jesus overflowed with love to the point of tears and that I need to be more like that. I have to admit, I am not anywhere near in touch with my feelings and emotions like Jesus was. Prayerfully, I will get there someday. I would like it to be sooner than later. Johnny Out.