This was a really good quiet time, honey! It was especially timely for me since I've been struggling with things at work. I really liked the point you made about picking out the biggest measuring spoon. That is a good visual analogy to think about when considering how to treat others. But that alone isn't enough because my motivation would still be selfish (I'm only forgiving you this much because I want to be forgiven this much), so I'm glad you also pointed out that forgiveness needs to be from the heart, not just a happy face one puts on. I just had a small revelation...I need to use a big measuring spoon not because I want to be forgiven much in the future, but because I have already been forgiven much when Jesus died for me.